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    So, this girl I know was seeing this guy... She didn't seem to be all that bothered by him, and was texting other guys, until the day he offered her an ultimatum. He told her that if she'd be happier with someone else, or a different situation, then she should go for it, no hard feelings. Following this, her interest in him skyrocketed.

    She's now with a different guy who she has known for about a year. They were seeing each other for 6 months casually before he basically called it off. A few months later, he changed his mind and they got together, becoming offiial. He then ended it again, since she was going away for 3 months. She says she is done with him because he's messing her around, yet still chats to him constantly and seems totally hung up.

    Would this heighten your interest in a guy - in the sense that he's not afraid to walk away from you - just as the first situation seemed to heighten hers? I suppose there's a difference in the sense that the first guy liked her but gave her an option...?
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    Yeah we are aware of this type, we call her 'bad news'.
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    (Original post by whorace)
    Yeah we are aware of this type, we call her 'bad news'.
    How so?
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    That's a girl who doesn't know what she wants and will always have her head turned. Eventually she'll be with the right guy but no I wouldn't say playing games is best - most girls I know don't do this.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    How so?
    You can't satisfy her, she thrives on fear of being rejected because it peaks her attraction so whenever she gets what she wants she moves on to the next guy.
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    (Original post by Jennie1987)
    That's a girl who doesn't know what she wants and will always have her head turned. Eventually she'll be with the right guy but no I wouldn't say playing games is best - most girls I know don't do this.
    well said my friend :P
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    (Original post by Jennie1987)
    That's a girl who doesn't know what she wants and will always have her head turned. Eventually she'll be with the right guy but no I wouldn't say playing games is best - most girls I know don't do this.
    So the latter example wouldn't heighten your interest in a guy?
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    (Original post by CleverSquirrel)
    well said my friend :P
    Thanks! :grin:
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    So the latter example wouldn't heighten your interest in a guy?
    I don't think my interest would be heightened - either I like a guy or I don't. If I'm not sure then it may make things clearer but then I wouldn't be involved like she is if I wasn't sure. A good person wouldn't mess with others.
 
 
 
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