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    Im 20 and still a virgin and never had a proper relationship. I do keep getting close with girl friends though.
    Firstly was a girl i was really intimate with for a couple of years. She had a girlfriend, but we would still cuddle loads on our sofas, and occasionally touch in a "jokey" way but really i dont think it was so jokey... a couple of times we made out, but i never did more because she was in a relationship...
    And now there is my housemate, who also has a boyfriend at the moment, but again we cuddle on our sofa alot when our other flatmates are out and have gotten off a couple of times but same as before i dont go further because she is in a relationship and i feel bad.
    And another close friend, we sleep in the same bed whenever we stay round with each other and she has undressed infront of me a couple of times, but i have no idea if theirs mutual feelings cos i really like her.

    These arent the only examples and basically I'm very confused and seem to always fall for my friends and need some advice, im getting so frustrated??
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    And another close friend, we sleep in the same bed whenever we stay round with each other and she has undressed infront of me a couple of times, but i have no idea if theirs mutual feelings cos i really like her.
    Friendzoned. Sorry

    By the way, you seem to keep falling for your friends which is bad practice. You're only setting yourself up for disappointment so go find a girl that isn't your friend and see how things go.
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    Find a girl who is not in a relationship and court her. So that you can have your own legal relationship.
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    you feel bad yet you carry on?

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    Are you M/F OP?
 
 
 
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