Not being allowed to talk

maybe they feel you aren't pulling your weight cause you talk too much.

It depends what you're talking about. If you're jabbering on about things that aren't of any interest to people (watch for glazed eyes, or not repsonding) then you're probably annoying them. My flatmate does this and it annoys the **** out of me. He will talk to me about stuff I have no interest in, purely because he wants to show me that he knows stuff. Especially when I am watching TV/reading/talking on the phone. Last night he decided to tell me about how there are different guages of something on a bike pump. ****ing brilliant. Anyway, that's off topic.

Some people find chatter disctracting - it drives my boss mad and I have had to learn not to burble on as is my usual way. Perhaps the girl is not used to working with people who talk whilst they work. What do you do?

To be honest love, it doesnt matter what other people think, if people find you annoying you would know it because they would do anything to avoid talking to you. I think this girl just obviously has a problem with you so maybe just go up and ask her if you have done anything to upset her, and if she says no or asks why tell her why your worried. It might just be her, she might not have meant to sound that rude?

The guy who i was talking to is intelligent and likes to know about things and he talks back with me, but yesterday i just felt like not talking anymore untill about 8pm when another girl(Polish supervisor) asked me why i was quiet
and she said i dont talk too much but maybe she didnt hear me talking to the guy.

Is it something to be ashamed of in any case?

You're still his friend arent you?

And is it true that most people will let you know that you are boring them?

Why do you always state the nationalities of females? It's mildly weird...

But anyway, it sounds like this girls being a bit of a cow. If anybody else had such a problem with it they would just tell you. When I am really busy at work people trying to chat to me is irritating, but not to the extent that I need to shout at them. It's not because I don't like the people talking to me etc but because I don't multi task very well and want to get on with my work, can't stand to see a queue! If this is the only issue she has she's making too much of a fuss, those crazy eastern europeans!

My flatemate? No, I tolerate him. he's weird and creepy but that's not the point.

I would ignore her, don't challenge her about it. If she wants to act like an arse, let her.

I just need to know from her, whether it was the questioning of her being annoyed or the fact that i talk alot. Because she might have waved the folder in my face and said stop talking in jest, and probably got annoyed at me saying sorry because its not a big deal or something.

Im not sure so i need to ask

Thanks for helping segat and everyone else

i had some good advice off my aunty yesterday, she said that women are COMPLETE b****es when it comes to the workplace. they always seem to want the upper hand and wherever you work there will be people like that. they dont do things that are really big, its little jibes that add up together and get to you. its a fact of life that us women have to put up with. another aunty, who is particularly beautiful (looks like julia roberts, grrr) has a lot of trouble, and has quit a few jobs because of women making horrible jibes at her. just dont say anythin about it to her, in fact try and ignore her where possible so she doesnt think she can get to you.

hope that helps!!

would you like rep??