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    (Original post by Stiff Little Fingers)
    So your problem is just with the penetration, not the foreplay...

    Seriously though, relationships can be non-sexual but it's a perfectly healthy part of a romantic relationship rather than this disgusting activity you seem to think.
    It doesn't really sit well with all the respectable activities though. I mean people go through all these lists of personality criteria when dating which is fine but to use that as a launchpad towards ****ing seems odd.
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    It doesn't really sit well with all the respectable activities though. I mean people go through all these lists of personality criteria when dating which is fine but to use that as a launchpad towards ****ing seems odd.
    That's where your problem lies - it's not a launch pad towards getting your rocks off, it's about ensuring you enjoy their company. Sex is generally a part of a romantic relationship but the entire thing isn't geared towards it.
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    (Original post by Its Time)
    Its just filthy animal copulation which any chav can do.

    Wouldn't it be good if dating was just eating out and taking trips to the Lake District, art galleries etc.
    You do realise you're a human being. Right?
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    (Original post by Stiff Little Fingers)
    That's where your problem lies - it's not a launch pad towards getting your rocks off, it's about ensuring you enjoy their company. Sex is generally a part of a romantic relationship but the entire thing isn't geared towards it.
    Wouldn't it be better to have one bird for the filthy stuff and the other for the pure? (cooking travelling and that)
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    I had to read what you wrote about 4 times to finally realie you weren't referring to oral sex when you said "eating out".
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    (Original post by ABsoluteX)
    Having a relationship without sex is just like having another friend.


    I would not be in a relationship if there was no sex involved, and if you think sex is rubbish/boring then you need to change how you go about it.
    Yet if you asked some girl randomly at work if they wanted to go up Snowdonia or dine out in London, that might be constituted as being more than friends.
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    (Original post by Its Time)
    Yet if you asked some girl randomly at work if they wanted to go up Snowdonia or dine out in London, that might be constituted as being more than friends.
    Not really.....If you didn't have sex with her she and everyone else would still think you're friends.

    I have been hiking with friends around Snowdonia and have also eaten out with them. Does not mean we're in a relationship hahaha
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    (Original post by Its Time)
    Its just filthy animal copulation which any chav can do.

    Wouldn't it be good if dating was just eating out and taking trips to the Lake District, art galleries etc.
    Sex is beautiful, very intimate and if with the person you truly love- it should be cherished and bring you even closer together.
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    (Original post by sunshine774)
    Sex is beautiful, very intimate and if with the person you truly love- it should be cherished and bring you even closer together.
    Can I love her and yet not want sex with her.
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    (Original post by Its Time)
    Can I love her and yet not want sex with her.
    Yes- it started like that with me and my partner. Sex does not define love, but can be a part of it if you wish.
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    (Original post by sunshine774)
    Yes- it started like that with me and my partner. Sex does not define love, but can be a part of it if you wish.
    i am not entirely unopposed to eating out a girls **** as a mark of devotion.
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    (Original post by Sheikhspeare 🎭)
    without sex th're is nay relationship

    howev'r i am a virgin and i had died a virgin
    And now you'll get 72 of them. :lol:
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    (Original post by Its Time)
    Its just filthy animal copulation which any chav can do.

    Wouldn't it be good if dating was just eating out and taking trips to the Lake District, art galleries etc.
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    (Original post by Stiff Little Fingers)
    So your problem is just with the penetration, not the foreplay...

    Seriously though, relationships can be non-sexual but it's a perfectly healthy part of a romantic relationship rather than this disgusting activity you seem to think.
    Your name is so appropriate for this comment xD
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    (Original post by Trapz99)
    Sex is essential for a relationship imo. How else are you supposed to have children? You could try IVF but that takes away all the fun lol.
    This may surprise you, but the sole purpose of being in a relationship isn't to have children.
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    (Original post by sleepyspider)
    This may surprise you, but the sole purpose of being in a relationship isn't to have children.
    It depends on the person. For a lot of people, including me, the main purpose of a relationship is to reproduce and create a family. I don't see the point of a relationship where I won't have children.
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    (Original post by Precious Illusions)
    I wish dating was all about eating out too.

    But seriously no, sex is a wonderful thing when done with someone you love. I couldn't be with someone who thought it was gross or whatever :dontknow:
    As a White girl,do you feel you have an upper hand when it comes to dating compared with ethnic minority females?
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    As a White girl,do you feel you have an upper hand when it comes to dating compared with ethnic minority females?
    I've never really thought about it. But I wouldn't personally say I do?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Why is that a no? Surely as a white female you are the most privileged in society after white males,you can't put yourself in the same shoes as ethnic females
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    (Original post by Its Time)
    Wouldn't it be better to have one bird for the filthy stuff and the other for the pure? (cooking travelling and that)
    why stop there? you've got your pure chick and your filthy chick - where's your sunday chick? where's your christmas chick? where's the chick that walks your dogs? where's your plan Z chick? where's your lonely winter night chick?

    diversify your chicks my dude
 
 
 
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