I don't know how to talk to / act around girls? Watch
I was wondering if someone can help me. I was basically home - schooled during secondary school, so I wasn't really able to develop much social skill. Now i'm at university, I still have really bad social skills around girls, which means I can't get any. For example, I met one in a club and we were dancing, but since I had no idea what to say to her, she ended up walking off with her friend. A few weeks later, she wanted to meet me in a club, but I didn't go because I knew my mind would just go blank when I met up with her, and that I wouldn't know what to say / how to act. How can I fix this?
The answer: how you should act around women is be your true self. What you should say to them is whatever is on your mind in that exact moment, and be honest with them that you find them attractive and tell what you're looking for.
Sounds simplistic? If you can grasp the power of what I said, you'll have no problem with women.
You're thinking too much about 'acting a certain way' and finding the 'perfect thing to say' in order for women to be attracted to you, but those things doesn't exist.
It sounds like you also need to build up your inner confidence and self-esteem also.
I teach a philosophy known as the direct approach to meeting and attracting women, which is all about being 100% real and honest with women....no beating around the bush, no acting fake, just being upfront and honest with them to get what you want (which is to either date or hook up with them romantically/sexually).
I have a free ebook all about the direct approach, it will go over the mindset and practical steps you can take to start meeting women immediately with this approach: