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I REALLY don't want to have to contact my ex Watch

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    Hey guys,

    So me and my ex broke up 2 and a half months ago, it was kind of long distance, 60 miles between us but we'd see each other weekly. She rang me to say she missed me back at the beginning of February, where I mentioned that she still had her stuff at mine and that she could come down if she wanted to and collect them (as it's all really too heavy and expensive to post).

    We haven't spoken for over a month now following her arguing with me, she blocked and deleted me on stuff, we have no mutual friends apart from people she knows of that I know. She hasn't been in touch about her stuff and I really don't want to contact her at all, as immature as that sounds i'd much rather just leave the case closed.

    What can I do? I can give some away to charity however I doubt they'll appreciate any of the lingerie etc. Should I just give away what I can and then bin the rest or should I really get in touch?

    Or has she left her stuff here deliberately so she can keep a foot in the door for a later date?

    Any help would be great!
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    Get in contact one last time to let her keep that you have her stuff, she's free to collect it but if you don't hear from her you're just going to give it away, then after that just have no more contact
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    Just bin it. She clearly doesn't want it back or to contact you.
 
 
 
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