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    So I have been talking to this girl online. We came across eachother on instagram then she added me on fb. We have briefly chatted before, then the other day we talked alot more. She asked where I'm from and what I do, she also said she enjoyed speaking with me. I take these as good signs? I don't really talk online normally and don't have much experience with girls in general. How long roughly is the right time to suggest meeting? She also lives the other end of the country which doesn't help. Also how can I tell she is interested in me other than just someone to talk too?

    I don't think there's a right time to meet up, it's different for everyone. Meet up when you both feel comfortable with it. I met someone online in October 2014, we didn't meet up until May 2015. This was a long distance as well, he lives in the UK and I live in The Netherlands. Personally, I wouldn't suggest meeting up right away. I'd talk a bit more (a few weeks maybe) before I'd suggest meeting so you get to know each other a little bit better, but then again, do what you are comfortable with! The things she says look good to me. Good luck, hope this helps a bit.
    • Very Important Poster

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    I agree with the above. I wouldn't rush into meeting up. I'd personally talk on Skype first or something too.
    • PS Reviewer

    PS Reviewer
    Whenever you both want to is fine.

    You can discuss the best time to meet up. I think you will know in time, both of you. Just wishing for a happy ending both of you.
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