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    (Original post by SophieSmall)
    This a forum filled with a not particularly varied group of people, statically it is a terrible place to look for trends in what men want in a woman.
    Forget statistics.

    This is a bad place to look for trends in what men want in a woman because 90% of the male users here are socially inept virgins
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    I understand scientifically why chest size causes different appeal, but is it really that much of a deal-breaker?

    Every person is different-
    Girls aren't gonna be able to be defined by their chest; it's like shoe size-

    Alright so maybe zero chest or abnormally large chest may be noticeable, but I still don't see how it factors in- all chests turn to washcloths at the end of the day, anyway


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    (Original post by Death Grips)
    Forget statistics.

    This is a bad place to look for trends in what men want in a woman because 90% of the male users here are socially inept virgins
    Nothing wrong with virgin guys, the fresher the better.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)

    rude about it? how? i can't help it i find flat chests really gross :/ sorry if that is offensive
    because you like girls and flat chests remind you of boys.
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    same way I love flat chests, and hate very protruding chests or moobs on guys.
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    I'm only a B and I don't feel it's hindered me when it comes to guys. I used to absolutely hate it and feel so self conscious but I'm very slim and they suit my body. Men have different preferences, there will be many who are extremely happy with the way they are, and accepting yourself makes a whole lot of a difference to your happiness, trust me.

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    (Original post by Changing Skies)
    I'm only a B and I don't feel it's hindered me when it comes to guys. I used to absolutely hate it and feel so self conscious but I'm very slim and they suit my body. Men have different preferences, there will be many who are extremely happy with the way they are, and accepting yourself makes a whole lot of a difference to your happiness, trust me.

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    Mind me asking when the clarity of "My chest size doesn't really matter" happened?


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    (Original post by Trussblink)
    Mind me asking when the clarity of "My chest size doesn't really matter" happened?


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    Probably when I was about 17/18. I think as a younger teenager you undoubtedly feel so much more unhappy with yourself, so as I felt a bit more mature, I felt happier with myself. I then met my current boyfriend and he's perfectly happy with them, so that obviously helps a lot. I guess it's important to remind yourself that having features that aren't necessarily generally attractive isn't the end of the world, as no matter your appearance, not everyone will find you attractive

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    (Original post by alkaline.)
    because you like girls and flat chests remind you of boys.
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    same way I love flat chests, and hate very protruding chests or moobs on guys.
    i realised halfway through this thread that mods can see what you post as anon awkward
    anyways that makes sense, i mean it depends on like how flat we are talking cos i'm not that bothered as long as they are like not non-existant there are like a million other things anyway so it wouldn't be like a huge priority just like a preference tbh lucky to get anyone lmaaoo :rofl:
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    I am sure that there are some guys that wouldn't mind a flat chest, you just have to find one that loves you for you.
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    A girl's boob size and the male preference towards them is an interesting but fundamentally flawed debate.

    It's very much like the scenario of finding yourself at a bar and ordering a coke, but finding out they serve Pepsi.

    Men may state a preference, but we'll take whatever's on tap.
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    (Original post by Changing Skies)
    Probably when I was about 17/18. I think as a younger teenager you undoubtedly feel so much more unhappy with yourself, so as I felt a bit more mature, I felt happier with myself. I then met my current boyfriend and he's perfectly happy with them, so that obviously helps a lot. I guess it's important to remind yourself that having features that aren't necessarily generally attractive isn't the end of the world, as no matter your appearance, not everyone will find you attractive

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    Thanks-
    Glad you're happy with yourself now, of course; I had body image troubles before- I'm only 5'8", and it bothered me a lot when dating a girl who was just a tad less tall than I was
    No idea why; I'm not the manilest man in all of man town, so I guess having some masculine advantage was important to me?
    I care not now though; not gonna be playing for England's rugby team, but at least some of my older hoodies still fit me xD

    Enjoy your day~


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    But isn't flat justice?

    Seriously, I would be content to be with a female, flat chested or not. As long as I can find some reason I am drawn to them, i'm good.
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    Its not going to bother them otherwise they wouldnt be with you. Otehr things are more important so i wouldnt worry at all, be yourself and someone else will appreciate that.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Ha, most people can't do 2 including guys I don't know why. Unfortunately I can't prove 14 I'd have to do a recent video but there's an older one of me doing about 9 a while ago here https://www.dropshots.com/purple12/d...eimg' />46.

    I'l do a new video when/if I get up to 20 :/.
    I couldn't load the video but I'll take your word for it. 14 pull ups is impressive regardless of gender so well done for getting there and good luck getting to 20. Is there anything you're training for?
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    Doesn't bother me at all, as long as she has a great pair of legs.
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    (Original post by jgjog3)
    Gey your name right you fraud
    geteth thy spelling right thou fool
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    (Original post by Death Grips)
    honestly the kind of men that have yugi-oh characters as their avatar are the kind that you'd be wasting your time on anyway
    you leave Joey Wheeler out of this
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    (Original post by 0123456543210)
    Flat chest + flat ass + mediocre face (and below) = not good
    Having no more than 1 of these is acceptable.
    This is such a rude comment about women , I can only imagine how Many girls have been affected by this . Teenage girls have so much pressure on them to constantly look good and men need to stop treating us like objects !!!!!!! So keep your rude views to yourself
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    (Original post by charlottealice24)
    This is such a rude comment about women , I can only imagine how Many girls have been affected by this . Teenage girls have so much pressure on them to constantly look good and men need to stop treating us like objects !!!!!!! So keep your rude views to yourself
    Honestly, not a lot of people, I'd imagine. Not many people come on this site, and those that do probably wouldn't care enough to view this thread or have already been here.

    I think you need to realise not all men see women as objects, since we are socialised in totally different ways. Granted, there will always be some men who do. But then we delve into realms of double standards, which everyone knows is not a myth, but it's not one sided either. Near enough everyone lusts, which is sexually craving. You will have sexually craved someone, unless you're ace. And chances are, unless you're not straight, they will have been male. In a way, you objectified their body due to sexual desire. Though, because it's not publically aired, it's not an open objectification.

    Everyone is entitled to their own views - don't try forcing yours down other's throats. Feminism is a two way street, so don't make sweeping comments about men without your total valid and reliable proof to support this. Times have changed, get with it.
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    (Original post by charlottealice24)
    This is such a rude comment about women , I can only imagine how Many girls have been affected by this . Teenage girls have so much pressure on them to constantly look good and men need to stop treating us like objects !!!!!!! So keep your rude views to yourself
    Someone seems to be bitter as the result of meeting more than 1 of the aforementioned categories.
    Btw, I have said that flat chest is not an issue as long as a girl is not deficient in other ways.
 
 
 
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