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    I'm gay, he's probably straight (going out with a girl but I can't confirm this yet) and all I want to do and can do is get over him. Plz help, this crush has been going on for longer than it should, 5+months and i've tried but the feelings came back after 2 weeks of nearly erasing him off my mind
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I'm gay, he's probably straight (going out with a girl but I can't confirm this yet) and all I want to do and can do is get over him. Plz help, this crush has been going on for longer than it should, 5+months and i've tried but the feelings came back after 2 weeks of nearly erasing him off my mind
    I think it's probably because there's still some part of your mind that thinks he could be interested and you don't want to forget him in case you actually had a chance, if you know for a fact he's not, you just need to accept that you'll be much better of with someone else who does like you. Sorry you're in this position op, but sometimes you is it need to face facts, trust me, I've been there
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    Well, we cannot help you much if you're not willing to get over him. The best and simplest advice I would give you is to basically divert attention from him. Limit contact with him etc.
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    Just tell him to say no homo when he slips it in.
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    (Original post by Blondie987)
    I think it's probably because there's still some part of your mind that thinks he could be interested and you don't want to forget him in case you actually had a chance, if you know for a fact he's not, you just need to accept that you'll be much better of with someone else who does like you. Sorry you're in this position op, but sometimes you is it need to face facts, trust me, I've been there
    Yeah I can see that now, I do try to get his attention from time to time, especially when i havent seen him for weeks. after a few weeks of not thinking about him, it just takes one thing to remind me of him and my feelings return

    I do try to find turn offs in him to help though.
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    (Original post by BrokenLife)
    Well, we cannot help you much if you're not willing to get over him. The best and simplest advice I would give you is to basically divert attention from him. Limit contact with him etc.
    what do you mean by diverting attention from him? thanks
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    what do you mean by diverting attention from him? thanks
    Like try not to think about him much. Focus on other stuff and engage with people who would make you forget him..like socialise more so that you have less to think about him.

    No worries. Hope it works out for you.
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    Laci Green my love.
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    (Original post by BrokenLife)
    Like try not to think about him much. Focus on other stuff and engage with people who would make you forget him..like socialise more so that you have less to think about him.

    No worries. Hope it works out for you.
    thank you, i'll try do as much of that as possible
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    Laci Green my love.
    You're not digging a hole out of this friendzone mate....
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    (Original post by Laci Green)
    You're not digging a hole out of this friendzone mate....
    Wow, savage :lol: Imagine how he's feeling right now
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    Your only logical solution is to become a transgender women and just never tell him.
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    This sounds soo similar to what I'm facing right now :O
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    Just tell him to let that feeling out on your system. The more you hide it the more it will burst out. I think you are in love already. Hehe. This is soo cute.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    This sounds soo similar to what I'm facing right now :O
    awww plz share your story ?
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    (Original post by ellej93)
    Just tell him to let that feeling out on your system. The more you hide it the more it will burst out. I think you are in love already. Hehe. This is soo cute.
    I think telling or even talking to him is out of the question, i have no guts for that! but i hope it's not love and just an infatuation phase :/
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    awww plz share your story ?
    just some guy at work I kinda like haha
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    I think telling or even talking to him is out of the question, i have no guts for that! but i hope it's not love and just an infatuation phase :/
    I was in the same situation about a year ago and I think the best thing you can do is tell him how you feel, its what I did and I think it really helped. He didn't mind he just took it as a compliment.
 
 
 
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