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    (Original post by BrokenLife)
    Op, just hang in there. We all have our bad times but we gotta just keep going on. Just think that circumstances will change in a few years time and if you deal with them positively right now, they will lead you to a better place. Trust me, I know its hard but be positive please!




    Errm..no. Moment, you're too amazing to be alone.
    Agreed

    And that last bit applies to all of you guys moment of truth SeanFM Blondie987 :yep:

    OP, you just need to seek help in order to stabilise yourself. There's absolutely no reason why you'll be alone forever :noway:
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    (Original post by moment of truth)
    I genuinely disagree, but thank you anyway
    But I GENUINELY disagree with what you disagree with And no worries
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    Nope I wouldnt worry. learn to enjoy your own company and to be supportive of yourself.

    Make sure you like yourself.

    You then have as much chance as others of findining someone you can be with if thats what you want. Plenty of time for amazing things to happen to you.
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    I'll have my 3+ cats.

    Thats doesn't classify as me as alone right?
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    (Original post by illness)
    Thats my problem. I feel like I cant be positive. I just fell like I am getting worse. I used to be positive but now I don't know how to be positive. I still tell myself positive things but that is useless without feerling positive- I dont know how to feel positive anymore.

    I know, I know what you mean. I've been there and sometimes ngl its still hard. But hey my advice to you would be to firstly talk to someone who you trust and feel comfortable with. This way you won't be keeping thing in. Trust me, once you'll talk to someone, you will feel MUCH better.

    secondly, surround yourself with positive people. Socialise more, go out and about. This way you'll see the positive side of life. The one which isn't depressing or hopeless. You'll meet people of different interests and backgrounds with different outlook and ambitions. This will not only help you to be positive but will encourage you to focus on your goals. You'll find out more about yourself.
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    Agreed

    And that last bit applies to all of you guys moment of truth SeanFM Blondie987 :yep:

    OP, you just need to seek help in order to stabilise yourself. There's absolutely no reason why you'll be alone forever :noway:
    I agree. And the sad part is that all of these are amazing souls! moment of truth Blondie987 SeanFM and OP if you need to talk to someone, know that I'm always here.
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    Sometimes, but it doesn't bother me
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    yes :groovy:the majority of ppl i am attracted to aren't attracted back bc biology and then the ones that could be aren't bc of my general unaesthetic qualities (can you tell i'm doing PD coursework rn eh? :smartass:)
    so yeah :lol: scuppered

    however OP of someone dosen't want to go with you bc of an illness you can't help then i don't think they are really worth ur time anyway x
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    (Original post by BrokenLife)
    But I GENUINELY disagree with what you disagree with And no worries
    lol fair enough, although I honestly don't see myself finding someone anytime soon.
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    (Original post by moment of truth)
    lol fair enough, although I honestly don't see myself finding someone anytime soon.
    Yeah perhaps not now but certainly when the time is right!
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    Sometimes, but it doesn't bother me
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    yes :groovy:the majority of ppl i am attracted to aren't attracted back bc biology and then the ones that could be aren't bc of my general unaesthetic qualities (can you tell i'm doing PD coursework rn eh? :smartass:)
    so yeah :lol: scuppered

    however OP of someone dosen't want to go with you bc of an illness you can't help then i don't think they are really worth ur time anyway x
    Can y'all just stop!? You guys are the most caring and lovely souls I know of and there is no way you guys will be alone! Seriously, Soni and Cavy, I mean it. You guys are seriously so nice and you guys won't be alone. Trust me!
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    (Original post by BrokenLife)
    Can y'all just stop!? You guys are the most caring and lovely souls I know of and there is no way you guys will be alone! Seriously, Soni and Cavy, I mean it. You guys are seriously so nice and you guys won't be alone. Trust me!
    ^She always speaks the truth so you guys better believe it :yes:
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    (Original post by BrokenLife)
    Can y'all just stop!? You guys are the most caring and lovely souls I know of and there is no way you guys will be alone! Seriously, Soni and Cavy, I mean it. You guys are seriously so nice and you guys won't be alone. Trust me!
    :lol: i'm just being honest cos statistically my chances are lower :rofl:
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    On a completely unrelated note BL, do you rmbr that shirt? you liked it right? cos i might wear it tomorrow and need ur advice x
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    I'll have my 3+ cats.

    Thats doesn't classify as me as alone right?
    Somehow you made me laugh. :rofl:
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    (Original post by BrokenLife)
    Can y'all just stop!? You guys are the most caring and lovely souls I know of and there is no way you guys will be alone! Seriously, Soni and Cavy, I mean it. You guys are seriously so nice and you guys won't be alone. Trust me!
    Aww, Noori xxx
    You are so lovely! Jiju is so lucky to have someone as sweet as you!

    Being alone - that I don't know, maybe maybe not. I am happy dying alone, like it's nothing that makes me sad
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    (Original post by CoolCavy)
    yes :groovy:the majority of ppl i am attracted to aren't attracted back bc biology and then the ones that could be aren't bc of my general unaesthetic qualities (can you tell i'm doing PD coursework rn eh? :smartass:)
    so yeah :lol: scuppered

    however OP of someone dosen't want to go with you bc of an illness you can't help then i don't think they are really worth ur time anyway x
    I am not sure if I can help it or not. I think some f it is self-inflicted.
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    Doubt it, always manage to find someone new somehow. Just keep going, and take risks.
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    There's nothing wrong with dying alone

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    Yeah... I took a while to get things going but to be quite honest with y'all that was mostly for a lack of trying and ALSO a lack of trust in people.

    If you wanna be good friends with folks you need to trust them in the first place, just a little. Enough to be able to open up to them and give them the time they need to open up to you and show you their good bits. Also, you need to not be bitter. You need to be generally benevolent and just be optimistic. It sounds ****ing hippy. But trust me daddy, it works. Eventually.

    In fact, **** recently for me has been happening too quick. I dunno wtf is going on.
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    (Original post by Indeterminate)
    ^She always speaks the truth so you guys better believe it :yes:
    You know it, jaan!

    Eternalflames and CoolCavy, did you hear my man say that? All you gotta do now is believe what I said

    (Original post by CoolCavy)
    :lol: i'm just being honest cos statistically my chances are lower :rofl:
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    On a completely unrelated note BL, do you rmbr that shirt? you liked it right? cos i might wear it tomorrow and need ur advice x
    No..we always criticise ourselves. This world is such a big place, what you may find bad about yourself, others may not. Also, did you print that pm that I sent you? Read that, Cavy! love you so much!

    Yes yes, I do and yes it looked pretty flattering on you! You should wear it but may I ask what's the occasion tomorrow?

    (Original post by Eternalflames)
    Aww, Noori xxx
    You are so lovely! Jiju is so lucky to have someone as sweet as you!

    Being alone - that I don't know, maybe maybe not. I am happy dying alone, like it's nothing that makes me sad
    Seriously, i'm just telling you the truth. I know you and i'm being 100% honest. Trust me wheoever my jiju is also extremely lucky cos he will have my soni!!

    And yes you may not feel sad but the reality is there is someone great out there for you! You aren't going to be alone, soni!

    I mean, you know I have your jiju but if I was a munda, I wouldn't have let such a caring, beautiful and honest person alone

    Btw Indeterminate don't you worry, I'm all yours!:p:


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    Somehow you made me laugh. :rofl:
    Haha I love undercxver! She's so funny!
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    Yes. :laugh: I genuinely don't think there's anyone out there who would be able + willing to wholly put up with me on a daily basis for absolute ever without going insane.*

    DAILY BASIS, PEOPLE.

    *(not that I care or anything. :emo:)
 
 
 
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