The Student Room Group

Shall I Or Shall I Not?

Ok, have been gettin to know a guy recently and we've talked about meeting and we both agreed tht we would meet when we feel comfy with each other n etc. Lately as im sure everyone has, have exams coming up so revision, tryin to find a summer job and sorting out things for uni so havent been in contact with him much all of which I told him. He is now claimin tht I havent told him anything and that I am making up excuses for not meeting. Not only that things I have told him which we talked about on the phone and etc, ie my voluntary work, lookin for jobs n etc he has completely dismissed, claims that I haven't told him.

Now honest opinion, do I ditch whilst its kinda early or give it a chance?

GD

Reply 1

ditch.

Reply 2

Ditch

Don't waste your time trying to make an insecure guy secure

It never works out, and then you're stuck with him

Reply 3

He seems to be a bit arsey and controlling at the moment, but he's probably stressed with exams at the moment, too.

If you can still see in him what you liked about him before, give it another try.

Also, everyone's busy at the moment but, if you both planned in advance, what's a couple of hours in the evening to you? It won't make that much difference in the long run to 'business'. In stressful times one should make time to have fun, anyway. :smile:

Reply 4

Schokis
He seems to be a bit arsey and controlling at the moment, but he's probably stressed with exams at the moment, too.


He hasnt got exams, he works full time. But yea the controlling and impatience thing is startin to creep out of him and its something tht I truly hate in men. Therefore I think im going to ditch him now rather thn get too involved with him.

GD

Reply 5

Aye it's probably for the best.

Reply 6

Schokis
Aye it's probably for the best.

Yeah, I hope everything is okay :smile:

Reply 7

You don't need a guy checking up on you every five minutes.

Reply 8

It's all about what suits you - I know that would drive me nuts, but some people like that. However, from what you've said it seems like ditching would be the best option, as much as I hate to be harsh, it sounds like you don't really need that right now :smile: