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    I'm pretty sure I have social anxiety or general anxiety as I have most of the symptoms.
    I have trouble dealing with situations where I don't know people well enough so I feel uncomfortable and act cold or miserable and people always take me the wrong way.

    I have a situation which is playing on my mind because I find it difficult to make decisions and usually I end up just doing nothing about it,running away or staying inside.

    Today my friend, who I'm not that close with, invited me to a party of her best friend, who I'm not close with at all. My friend can't go to the party but her best friend asked me to come anyway. I don't know any of the people going, except maybe 1 or 2 but I'm not close with them either and they are all close friends. I really want to go out and have fun but the anxiety about going to a new place on my own surrounded by people I'm not close with scares me so much. What should I do?

    Could anyone help me or give me some advice?

    I'd say go, but have an excuse that you can use if you want to leave. Ultimately you need to decide whether your anxieties over this are going to stop you from enjoying yourself if you go.
    Personally, I find that the apprehension over something like this will disappear or at least improve as soon as you get into the situation, and you'll wonder what you were worrying about

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