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    Me and this guy have been on four date. Have the fifth planned.

    After our third he text me asking me "thinking of what we are" he said he thought he was too busy for s bf atm amd doesmt have time but he'd cross that bridge when he gets there. I'm also busy.
    We agreed to being exclusive.

    Is it too early of asking him to be my bf?
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    If he has specifically told you he doesn't feel ready for a serious relationship, it might not be a good idea to say you want him to be your bf but if you're exclusive anyway I don't really know the difference?
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    (Original post by Blondie987)
    If he has specifically told you he doesn't feel fraud for a serious relationship, it might not be a good idea to say you want him to be your bf but if you're exclusive anyway I don't really know the difference?
    How did this get here? Something you want to tell me?
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    (Original post by whorace)
    How did this get here? Something you want to tell me?
    It was meant to say ready! Freaking autocorrect!
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    I don't think there is any real need to label it..so long as you are clear where the boundaries lie, which it seems you are as you have agreed to exclusivity
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    For heaven's sake just let it evolve into a relationship... you'll know.
 
 
 
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