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    (Original post by SmallTownGirl)
    Yeah, it's kinda what you say rather than the number of emojis you use.
    Yeah but i cant even get to that bit. And the 1 girl i was talkimg to i was being nice, ask her question about her, etc etc.
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    (Original post by SamL94)
    Yeah but i cant even get to that bit. And the 1 girl i was talkimg to i was being nice, ask her question about her, etc etc.
    Because your profile says NOTHING about you.
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    You're projecting no confidence at all!! From what you've said you seem very insecure and that really shows even if it's just on a silly profile. Girls want to think they're going to meet someone who's cool and whatnot and it doesn't matter if you are or not it's just as long as they think you're cool at the start. I know cool isn't the right word but I can't think of a more appropriate term. Anyways I think a happier picture will look better, along with one not taken by you, and one of you and your mates. Try and say something witty in your profile, or maybe a bit about you that sounds vague so they'll want to know more. You're not even a bad looking lad, you just need to up your confidence and openness. Maybe work on something about your appearance that's holding you back, or throw yourself into socialising more with new people if that's what makes you uncomfortable?
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    P.S get rid of the selfie with the blue background, the angle makes you look tiny. The black and white one is a nice one. :-)
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    (Original post by richpanda)
    Only 8/10 or higher males do well on Tinder, that's the rules these days mate, the male market is overpopulated and the female one underpopulated, creating the phenomenon called thirst.

    Add to that social media validation, hook ups, etc, and many average guys are finding it really hard.
    op won't want to hear this but it's the truth, unless you're very good looking don't even bother with tinder, why would women swipe average guys when she has an endless supply of Chads to choose from?
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    Ditch the dodgy mirror selfies. You should mainly be using pics that were taken by other people (preferably showing you doing something other than drinking in a pub)
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    Get off the dating sites/apps + social media and go meet women irl. Those sites have made so many people delusional and it's not good for your mental health.

    Focus on yourself for a while, talk to new people and build your confidence + social skills instead.
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    (Original post by Greg Jackson)
    op won't want to hear this but it's the truth, unless you're very good looking don't even bother with tinder, why would women swipe average guys when she has an endless supply of Chads to choose from?
    aware. If you're not a chad, there is literally no point on being on tinder. However you can still do okay in real life.
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    Guys do you think my pictures are any good for tinder


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    I actually swiped left to you on tinder, awkwardly I remember you. You don’t stand out, you blend in and don’t look fun or interesting. As for looks, you’re average yeah but you’re not your friends, everyone looks different so stop comparing yourself to your friends “they don’t smile” SO WHAT you’re not them. They might be slightly better looking.
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    I'm shocked you've done this badly on there OP ... I mean you're no 8+ ...but you're hardly ugly either

    you need to try talking to girls on a night out or something if Tinder isn't working for you. I'd be surprised if you talked to 20 single girls on a night out [7/10 or below] and they all knocked you back
 
 
 
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