Fair enough. It is already affecting her negatively though (crying profusely etc etc) but I get your point.(Original post by SophieSmall)
She doesn't have to accept it, she can leave him. But she can't make him change or stop doing things because she doesn't like it unless his behaviour is negatively affecting her (like if he became abuse when drunk ect).
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- 19-03-2016 22:47
- 19-03-2016 22:50
(Original post by Anonymous)
- 19-03-2016 23:51
i honestly don't know what to do. its been two days since i left the house crying. don't even ask where he got it from coz i don't even know. i really don't want to go through this with him. am 19 and i just want to focus on my education. but this is just really stressing me out. i also don't want to leave him coz i really do love him and care for him. i don't know what to do. HELP!
- 20-03-2016 22:53
Chill out OP. Jeez.
Most people these days do coke at some point. And they don't get addicted. You've got no right to tell him not to do drugs; and if you tell him he 'can't' he'll just carry on but make sure you don't find out about it.
It's not a big deal unless he's doing it all the time. Once every couple of months isn't an issue, every week or every day is.
- 20-03-2016 23:33
I don't think you're overreacting especially if you've already experienced drugs negatively within your family...If you can't deal with it, walk away. It's not something you should have to put up with. I live with people at uni that do it every week and eventually moved out because I didn't want to deal with it. Just remove yourself from the situation I'd say.
(Original post by JamesN88)
- 21-03-2016 01:18
Cocaine for the most part is a recreational drug, if he's had the odd dabble it isn't the end of the world just make it clear that it stops as of now.
It certainly isn't on a par with Heroine which should have a class of its own IMO.
Generally speaking drug addiction hype is a bit over the top. Heroin withdrawal in medical reasoning is little more than basically having the flu for two weeks. It's more a addictive personality or other underlying issues that have the potential to turn 'recreational drug use' into 'problem drug use'. That being said Heroin is a massive no go.
Cocaine on the other hand depends on the usage. I know many people who use it as a party drug (a **** one at that) maybe 1-3 times a year. Also smoking crack is slightly different to snorting a few lines of coke.
- 21-03-2016 01:21
- 21-03-2016 13:38
- 21-03-2016 13:41
Nothing wrong with taking cocaine.....As long as he's not addicted.
Spoiler:more of an addiction issue that i can only suggest NAShowsomeone in the DM had some and get people bumps from their supply
- 21-03-2016 13:56
- 21-03-2016 16:08
I know a few people whose partners have been on drugs on the sly, it's a shame