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    im talking to this guy, starting to on a personal level, i showed him what i look like i.e. sent a few pictures and he finds me attractive. he hasnt shown me any of him until i exchange my number with him but my phones broke. anyway he keeps asking me to send a picture as he wants to see what my body looks like, he wants to see a normal selfie where my body is in it (i described it to him in our messages) but i dont want to for the following reasons:
    1. how awkward is it going to be just taking a picture of my body and sending it
    2. i wear loose clothes most of the time so you wont be able to see my body properly
    3. i dont have any full selfies of me
    hes getting a bit annoyed that im refusing to send one and saying that im teasing him. how is that teasing? idk.

    am i being unreasonable?
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    You're not being unreasonable, tell him to sling it.
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    dont do anything youre not comfortable doing
    explain what you have written here to him and if he still is asking for them tell him straight no
    you do what you like he cant do anything
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    my hunch is he wants to know if you're his body type or not. You don't have to do anything if you don't want to do it. It would be best to just skype tbh. But tbh if i was dating a guy or considering to, I would want to know his body type too...
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    dont do anything youre not comfortable doing
    explain what you have written here to him and if he still is asking for them tell him straight no
    you do what you like he cant do anything
    This.

    Don't do anything that you're uncomfortable with/don't like the idea of.
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    If you don't want to do it then don't. If he is a complete **** about it and doesn't understand then he isn't someone you want to be talking to anyway.
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    there are a lot of pervs on the internet... be careful.
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    (Original post by Jenx301)
    If you don't want to do it then don't. If he is a complete **** about it and doesn't understand then he isn't someone you want to be talking to anyway.
    this is almost exactly what I was gonna write :yep:
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    Never do anything you dont want to and arent comfortable with as per #3.
    If he gets annoyed and keeps pressing it then he isnt respecting you. Bad news.
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    If you're not comfortable, just say no, you don't need to give a reason.


    He wants something from you, but that thing is your right to show or protect.
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    (Original post by Mrs House)
    my hunch is he wants to know if you're his body type or not. You don't have to do anything if you don't want to do it. It would be best to just skype tbh. But tbh if i was dating a guy or considering to, I would want to know his body type too...
    Easy there sherlock. But yeah he wants to see a full picture because you get a lot of overweight girls that can still look really good in face only pics.
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    Are you overweight or are you thin?
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    (Original post by tootles44)
    Are you overweight or are you thin?
    slim size 6/8 but with good boobs and bum
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    it dm hes a jerk were not talking anymore
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    Have you seen a legit picture of him?


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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    im talking to this guy, starting to on a personal level, i showed him what i look like i.e. sent a few pictures and he finds me attractive. he hasnt shown me any of him until i exchange my number with him but my phones broke. anyway he keeps asking me to send a picture as he wants to see what my body looks like, he wants to see a normal selfie where my body is in it (i described it to him in our messages) but i dont want to for the following reasons:
    1. how awkward is it going to be just taking a picture of my body and sending it
    2. i wear loose clothes most of the time so you wont be able to see my body properly
    3. i dont have any full selfies of me
    hes getting a bit annoyed that im refusing to send one and saying that im teasing him. how is that teasing? idk.

    am i being unreasonable?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    it dm hes a jerk were not talking anymore
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    (Original post by Retired_Messiah)
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    yeah ik he got fed up and talking on tsr was too much effort
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    im talking to this guy, starting to on a personal level, i showed him what i look like i.e. sent a few pictures and he finds me attractive. he hasnt shown me any of him until i exchange my number with him but my phones broke. anyway he keeps asking me to send a picture as he wants to see what my body looks like, he wants to see a normal selfie where my body is in it (i described it to him in our messages) but i dont want to for the following reasons:
    1. how awkward is it going to be just taking a picture of my body and sending it
    2. i wear loose clothes most of the time so you wont be able to see my body properly
    3. i dont have any full selfies of me
    hes getting a bit annoyed that im refusing to send one and saying that im teasing him. how is that teasing? idk.

    am i being unreasonable?
    I don't think there's anything unreasonable about asking for a full body selfie..
    Why not ask him for one so that you can exchange them?
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    okay so now i showed him a picture of my body and now he wants to see a picture of me in a bra (he tried to be nice and said i dont have to put my face in it), he gets so fustrated and annoyed when i say no he doesnt understand that its wrong for a girl to send a picture like that on the internet to someone she doesnt know its wrong. he doesnt know why he gets so fustrated over it
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    (Original post by cherryred90s)
    I don't think there's anything unreasonable about asking for a full body selfie..
    Why not ask him for one so that you can exchange them?
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    (Original post by dean01234)
    Easy there sherlock. But yeah he wants to see a full picture because you get a lot of overweight girls that can still look really good in face only pics.
    (Original post by 999tigger)
    Never do anything you dont want to and arent comfortable with as per #3.
    If he gets annoyed and keeps pressing it then he isnt respecting you. Bad news.
    (Original post by Alexion)
    this is almost exactly what I was gonna write :yep:
    (Original post by Jenx301)
    If you don't want to do it then don't. If he is a complete **** about it and doesn't understand then he isn't someone you want to be talking to anyway.
    (Original post by SeanFM)
    This.

    Don't do anything that you're uncomfortable with/don't like the idea of.
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    You're not being unreasonable, tell him to sling it.
    can you see the above comment i made please
 
 
 
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