I do get this idea, what they dont know doesnt hurt them, but tbh fidelity and trust is a strong part of a relationship amd he would be living a lie without telling. Of in the unlikley event it applied to me, then you have to pick your moment.(Original post by Ablicious)
If he hadn't of told her then no one would get hurt. If he cared for her then surely he wouldn't.
Everyone makes mistakes and sometimes it's much better to forget and move on.
Get the low down