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    (Original post by Ishea16)
    I can understand what you mean,
    but I'm not sure what to say tbh
    I mean he sounds amazing and understanding but only you know if you could handle both your studies and a relationship since you're applying for medicine it might be hard but i do think that you could do both tbh
    how about you give each other a break and maybe after your exams you will feel like you could carry on?
    as for parents, trust me people have it worse just respect them they are your parents after all
    good luck
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    Maybe say that you're going out with your friends when you're going out with your boyfriend?

    You don't realise how easy you have it if your parents let you go out with your friends. The reason I don't have a boyfriend is because my parents wouldn't ever let me go out and so it most probably wouldn't work.
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    Good luck is all I have to say OP.
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    You had sex with your boyfriend and your asian parents know about it but haven't kicked you out or shipped you off to India. You don't know the meaning of strict asian parents.
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    (Original post by MrsSheldonCooper)
    Maybe say that you're going out with your friends when you're going out with your boyfriend?

    You don't realise how easy you have it if your parents let you go out with your friends. The reason I don't have a boyfriend is because my parents wouldn't ever let me go out and so it most probably wouldn't work.
    Nah they're too suspicious now. I can go out with certain friends, female, but it has to be very evident that I'm with them.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    You had sex with your boyfriend and your asian parents know about it but haven't kicked you out or shipped you off to India. You don't know the meaning of strict asian parents.
    Lol yeah I get you, I think maybe I got the slightly luckier end of asian parents :P But yeah I understand others have it harder than me, but it's still a personal problem that I have which I would like resolved
 
 
 
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