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Ok so before i post this please dont reply by telling me how bad i am and how much my bf deserves better, because 1, i know he does and 2, he knows all this stuff too ! Ok so, thing is, i have been with my bf about 14 months now, we have been rly great together, rarely argue etc but i have a problem with getting bored easily. Me and my bf plus a couple of his mates went out for my 18th and one of his mates (who i speak to a lot on msn) every time my bf left the room he grabbed me n tried to kiss me, which i declined and pushed him away, although i loved the attention. So we all went to stay at this guys house and my bf went to bed but i was a bit drunk and wanted to stay up. Me and this guy were talking until about 6am and he was very veryflirty and in the end we kissed. I told my bf straight away but now all i can do is think about this other guy. Non stop! Problem is he just says he was drunk, although he is still sometimes flirty on msn and other times completely ignores me. he kind of sees girls as numbers and always tells me all the blonde girls he finds really attractive. Its upsetting me though how much i think about and enjoyed the night i had with him, but i dont see anything happening. My bf doesnt know all the stuff i think about the guy, and im ot really sure what to do about it. Do i just forget him and move on?
The guy sounds like a bit of a prat.
you can't have your cake and eat it too. It's very mean on your boyfriend for you to be with him yet still pursuing the other boy. Just pick one or the other and stop playing with them. It isn't nice. If you get bored easily then that is something you need to work on, otherwise you will never have a successful long term relationship. Good luck.
Just go with the other guy and be one of his 'numbers'. You obviously prefer him.
If you love the attention then clearly something is wrong in your relationship. By the way please don't use text talk.
It all depends on how you feel to be honest, but you have to ask yourself, if you choose this other guy, will it be any different, or will you just become another one of hin 'numbers', will he treat you well, will this attention last? these are all the questions you need to ask you're self. pure attraction won't cut it.
You however sound unhappy in your relationship, if your getting bored, try different ways of spicing things up. But if you think it maybe best to split up then do so.
The choice is yours
You however sound unhappy in your relationship, if your getting bored, try different ways of spicing things up. But if you think it maybe best to split up then do so.
The choice is yours
Oh Christ you kissed another guy? Italian footballers kiss each other when they score....get over it and if you have a real problem post it on here 
Peart
The guy sounds like a bit of a prat.
Yeah... true... but a successful one.
OP: How good a friend is this guy to your boyfriend (cheating with you notwithstanding).
You need to forget about that guy and focus on your bf if you want it to work out, if the guy you kissed is willing to cheat with you on his friend then he would probably cheat if you went out with him.. can't be trusted.
"If he does it with you, he'll do it to you" - So true.
You may think this other guy seems so great now, maybe you can imagine being with him instead of your boyfriend but im sure it really would not be like that in reality, especially as you say hes that type of guy that sees girls as numbers.
If youve been with your boyfriend for 14 months, and hes forgiven you for kissing one of his friends [drunk or not] then he sounds a good guy and your relationship sounds strong.
Dont let 'grass is greener on the other side' syndrome wreck your relationship. 14 months is a long time to forget just how much it means to have an incredibly relationship and caring guy who is always there for you.. why would you want to throw that away for a guy that probably cares for you fraction of the amount.
Forget about the guy, hope this goes ok as im sure your boyfriend is lovely. try to remember just how happy youve been with him in the past and all the fun stfuf youve done together
You may think this other guy seems so great now, maybe you can imagine being with him instead of your boyfriend but im sure it really would not be like that in reality, especially as you say hes that type of guy that sees girls as numbers.
If youve been with your boyfriend for 14 months, and hes forgiven you for kissing one of his friends [drunk or not] then he sounds a good guy and your relationship sounds strong.
Dont let 'grass is greener on the other side' syndrome wreck your relationship. 14 months is a long time to forget just how much it means to have an incredibly relationship and caring guy who is always there for you.. why would you want to throw that away for a guy that probably cares for you fraction of the amount.
Forget about the guy, hope this goes ok as im sure your boyfriend is lovely. try to remember just how happy youve been with him in the past and all the fun stfuf youve done together
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you have committed a grave sin young women, pray to god and he may not condemn you to hell forever!!!
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