I'm interested in a Pakistani girl and time is running out

its not about being religious lol, its just being muslim, a muslim female doesnt marry a non muslim, religious or just a mere normal follower, i dont think thats something crazy to say, i thought this was fact? he doesnt know she is religious but again being reckless now will lead to future issues. i dont say whether i agree or disagree, just stating what the fact is.

In her defence, it's not sufficient to call someone a non-Muslim just because they chose not to follow a rule, rather it's just sinful to do that, and although it is unIslamic and sinful to call something which is sinful 'not sinful', this does not always in of itself make someone a non-Muslim

Yes that's a fact according to Islamic rules but some Muslim ladies to marry outside their religion. It doesn't make them non Muslim or anything because being a Muslim is in your heart and faith in Allah.



Yes because if you really think Allah is the judge, then people shouldn't judge others and let Allah judge others. And no one has the right to call any non Muslim..don't you remember that hadith of the prophet(pbuh) where one of his companion said how a Jewish convert wasn't actually a Muslim to which the prophet(pbuh) replied you have not seen what's in his heart. Anyone who believes in the Kalima and allah and Prophet is a Muslim.

And everyone has their own weakness, humans aren't perfect.

whatever, to each their own, fair enough

also, like you said, time is running out. you deserve to know what she thinks. put religion aside for a minute and just focus on your feelings for her and just tell her i know it's easier said than done, but that's just what i think

Yes because if you really think Allah is the judge, then people shouldn't judge others and let Allah judge others. And no one has the right to call any non Muslim..don't you remember that hadith of the prophet(pbuh) where one of his companion said how a Jewish convert wasn't actually a Muslim to which the prophet(pbuh) replied you have not seen what's in his heart. Anyone who believes in the Kalima and allah and Prophet is a Muslim.

And everyone has their own weakness, humans aren't perfect.

I agree with you to an extent but on balance, people can still judge by the book of Allah since it's Allah's word, therefore representative of Allah's judgment - a scholar could assess a situation and deem that a person is a non-Muslim even if they say the Kalima with their tongues e.g. hypocrites, deviants etc, but it's not really wise for someone unlearned to attempt to call people non-Muslim or a hypocrite since these are massive accusations, unless the situation is really clear cut.
In the case of the hadith you mentioned, it was a man who had been practicing Islam in secret but said the Shahadah outloud when the Muslim army approached, so this situation is slightly different since people are stating their beliefs publically and can therefore have them scrutinised, although the general message of not knowing what's in people's hearts is a true and fair point

write a note to her telling you how you feel. i'm not muslim, but that would be so cute hahah. my feelings for any guy would increase dramatically if he wrote me a note or letter.

also, like you said, time is running out. you deserve to know what she thinks. put religion aside for a minute and just focus on your feelings for her and just tell her i know it's easier said than done, but that's just what i think

Actually this is what I'm planning, but I'd have to be drunk to even have the confidence to do such a thing which is quite depressing I know.
I just feel that if I gave her a note that expresses what's in my heart, and her response is that she ignores it completely, then that would be the most hurtful thing that could happen to me. More hurtful than if she responds back with saying no. Though both would be hurtful.

O Paaji, I ain't no scholar nor do I wish to be. All I was tryna say is that live and let others live. Just focus on your soul cos at the end of the day, Allah is going to ask for your amaal naama, not the girl's who OP likes or mine.

Oye bhenji, rehnde, I'll stop

This might end up in tears.