Regret giving virginity away

It's simple. She used me for sex and I was naive and not aware.

She deleted me and I can't even talk to her anymore.

I'm 19.

I regret it so much, i'm distraught.

Someone help me please

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Reply 1

Anonymous #2

Original post by Anonymous

It's simple. She used me for sex and I was naive and not aware.

She deleted me and I can't even talk to her anymore.

I'm 19. I regret it so much, i'm distraught.

Someone help me please

What is done is done. No need to beat yourself about it. Move on. The future is bright. Good luck.

Reply 2

Darien91

Why did you make this again?

Reply 3

Bittah Demon

Why is it a big deal?

Tell people you still are, no one will know.

Reply 4

Just for laughs

U should be a happy man then :s-smilie:

Reply 5

999tigger

You cant change it. Presumably you did it becayse you wnated to at the time, so you just have to live with your decsions and move on.

Reply 6

vince0190

be a man, you did not loose anything, that's normal, being a masculine, you will experience that kind of thing, dont make it too serious, however if you want a serious relationship, learn how to read a girl that will be loyal to you. keep it up men.

Reply 7

thunder_chunky

Too bad, it's done. Learn from it and move on.

Reply 8

Chief Wiggum

Honestly, it really isn't a big deal. I don't think it's something you should be worried about.

Reply 9

dean01234

You could ask her nicely to return it

Reply 10

LiquidGold

Your problem is how you're thinking of it. Virginity isnt something that you 'give away' and it isnt some sacred thing. Sex is a normal part of most adults lives it's really not a big deal. Yeh, it's bad she used you but you shouldnt be focusing on the virginity aspect of it. Just try and move on, and if it really boters you that much then just be more careful next time.

Reply 11

thefatone

Original post by Anonymous

It's simple. She used me for sex and I was naive and not aware.

She deleted me and I can't even talk to her anymore.

I'm 19.

I regret it so much, i'm distraught.

Someone help me please

How does this work????????

Reply 12

999tigger

It seems he's less bothered about the virginity aspect and more about the fact she dumped him. Losing it has significance for some girls, but I cant really see why you would get distraught as a boy.

Reply 13

BhagwanNoBhool

Original post by thefatone

How does this work????????

She's a Cyberman

Reply 14

Wired_1800

I realised that my post was anonymous. What I wrote was:

What is done is done. No need to beat yourself about it. Move on. The future is bright. Good luck.

Reply 15

whorace

Original post by thefatone

How does this work????????

She right clicked him and pressed move to recycle bin

Reply 16

PaulACP

honestly, don't beat yourself off about it.

Reply 17

fatima1998

Original post by DonkeyShlong

Why is it a big deal?

Tell people you still are, no one will know.

you can't just say this to people or your partner - it's not the right thing :u:

you will break their trust and you just can't deceive - it's better to speak truth
Truth hurts but lies worse :colonhash:

Reply 18

fatima1998

Original post by 999tigger

It seems he's less bothered about the virginity aspect and more about the fact she dumped him. Losing it has significance for some girls, but I cant really see why you would get distraught as a boy.

boys also have feelings - mental status isn't that different when it comes to relationships

Reply 19

whorace

Original post by 999tigger

It seems he's less bothered about the virginity aspect and more about the fact she dumped him. Losing it has significance for some girls, but I cant really see why you would get distraught as a boy.