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    (Original post by xobeauty)
    Befriend her because she's your sisters boyfriends sister. Would you feel that it's important to form friendships with them?



    Rofl I don't know how to say it more simple sorry guys.
    Erm if it's like serious and potentially family, sure great, lets all get along, if they're 20 and just met on tinder then....its all down to how serious **** is, we need more context.

    E: only just realised you're a girl, awks

    Okay questions
    1. How old is everyone here? you, her your brother
    2. What's ur relationship like with your brother
    3. What's your brother relationship like with her, duration of it, how serious etc
    4. Ur relationship with her, I.e met her through your brother and he's ur only connection or tons of mutual friends, how many times have you met her? Etc
    5. Not a question I take it this is ur brothers first gf?
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    (Original post by xobeauty)
    Befriend her because she's your sisters boyfriends sister. Would you feel that it's important to form friendships with them?



    Rofl I don't know how to say it more simple sorry guys.
    Umm, feel free to prove me wrong, but you've been asked your name twice for, and you have constantly dodged the question. Is there something there, or was it just an accident?

    How old are you, and this time, please address this question. disclosing your age wouldn't really cause anyone to recognise you, or anything. Maybe we could give better advice instead.
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    Erm if it's like serious and potentially family, sure great, lets all get along, if they're 20 and just met on tinder then....its all down to how serious **** is, we need more context.

    E: only just realised you're a girl, awks

    Okay questions
    1. How old is everyone here? you, her your brother
    2. What's ur relationship like with your brother
    3. What's your brother relationship like with her, duration of it, how serious etc
    4. Ur relationship with her, I.e met her through your brother and he's ur only connection or tons of mutual friends, how many times have you met her? Etc
    5. Not a question I take it this is ur brothers first gf?
    We are all in our early or mid 20s...he's 24
    My relationship with my brother is close, we don't hang out though or share friends
    They've been together for over a year
    I met her through my brother, she and I have chilled like five times only in family functions
    No not his first gf.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Umm, feel free to prove me wrong, but you've been asked your name twice for, and you have constantly dodged the question. Is there something there, or was it just an accident?

    How old are you, and this time, please address this question. disclosing your age wouldn't really cause anyone to recognise you, or anything. Maybe we could give better advice instead.
    What's my name and age have to do with it? You're posting anonymously and I find it shady that that's all your really interested in knowing as if it's the most important detail to know. We are all adults and don't worry about my name.
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    (Original post by xobeauty)
    We are all in our early or mid 20s...he's 24
    My relationship with my brother is close, we don't hang out though or share friends
    They've been together for over a year
    I met her through my brother, she and I have chilled like five times only in family functions
    No not his first gf.
    I forgot to ask location, if you all live in the same town.

    Based on what you have said it would be ideal to be friends seeing as he takes it serious and ur opinion of her would matter to him. If you don't feel it though no pressure as long as you're civilised. Seeing as you've only met her a handful of times no one can expect you to be best buddies.

    E: by location I don't mean where you live just ur proximity to her, stalking vibes out here
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    (Original post by xobeauty)
    What's my name and age have to do with it? You're posting anonymously and I find it shady that that's all your really interested in knowing as if it's the most important detail to know. We are all adults and don't worry about my name.
    :rofl: name or any advice is invalid. Loool. Joke

    I get the age thing like if you're 30 and she's 18 or something but early 20s is enough info, all at similar stage in life
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    (Original post by dmz)
    I forgot to ask location, if you all live in the same town.

    Based on what you have said it would be ideal to be friends seeing as he takes it serious and ur opinion of her would matter to him. If you don't feel it though no pressure as long as you're civilised. Seeing as you've only met her a handful of times no one can expect you to be best buddies.

    E: by location I don't mean where you live just ur proximity to her, stalking vibes out here
    We live in the same city... Why does this matter too in this situation?
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    (Original post by xobeauty)
    We live in the same city... Why does this matter too in this situation?
    My gf and my siblings don't live in the same city, I hardly expect them to be friends cos the distance means there's less opportunity for us all to go on outings etc
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    (Original post by xobeauty)
    Are you still confused?
    Yes. I am. Let me know when you aren't behaving like a stupid teenager running after girls, I might catch on.
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    No, be seriously suspicious. Particularly if she has bigger baps
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    (Original post by xobeauty)
    I know no one likes long threads so I'll skip the details and you can ask me questions if you need more info.

    Is it normal for guys to want to befriend their sisters boyfriends sister?
    Guys will try to befriend whomever they feel like befriending. I don't know why it should make a difference if it's their sister's boyfriend's sister. It's just a girl they're acquainted with.
 
 
 
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