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    If you discovered that your partner had a lot of sexual partners, around 20 region and he only stopped it 2 weeks before you guys met, would it change your opinion on him?
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    Of course!
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    (Original post by ODES_PDES)
    Of course!
    why?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    why?
    It will always play in my mind.
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    (Original post by ODES_PDES)
    It will always play in my mind.
    that is true, and the way you see him as a male version of a promiscuous female or loose woman.
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    I think if I found out they'd previously been unfaithful I'd be more bothered than if they'd been promiscuous
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    (Original post by Donkey******)
    I think if I found out they'd previously been unfaithful I'd be more bothered than if they'd been promiscuous
    interesting point.
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    I'd probably feel a little surprised and jealous at first but I'd get over it. I wouldn't judge them for it. Everyone has a past. Maybe he just hadn't met the right person yet and when he does he'll be very loyal and committed.


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    (Original post by Donkey******)
    I think if I found out they'd previously been unfaithful I'd be more bothered than if they'd been promiscuous

    I agree with this^
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    (Original post by tinkerbelle2)
    I'd probably feel a little surprised and jealous at first but I'd get over it. I wouldn't judge them for it. Everyone has a past. Maybe he just hadn't met the right person yet and when he does he'll be very loyal and committed.


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    fair enough , and I was jealous and felt upset because he didn't tell me what I was getting into so I felt lied to a bit. I guess it was all insecurity but you're pretty right about this, so I now understand.
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    fair enough , and I was jealous and felt upset because he didn't tell me what I was getting into so I felt lied to a bit. I guess it was all insecurity but you're pretty right about this, so I now understand.
    Yeah that's totally understandable. How are things now?


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    (Original post by tinkerbelle2)
    Yeah that's totally understandable. How are things now?


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    I've moved on and realised I care much more about this relationship than the past. Things did get really bad but I had to swallow my pride and ego to see that it's something really special
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    I would be okay with it, as long as he is disease free.
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    I would be okay with it, as long as he is disease free.
    fair enough
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    probably, but I'd obvious prefer if she had a similar number to me so we could feel like equals
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    (Original post by AlmightyJesus)
    probably, but I'd obvious prefer if she had a similar number to me so we could feel like equals
    yeah instead of being someway intimidated by it
 
 
 
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