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    So there is this girl, I like and I thought she liked me. However I am no longer sure

    We are in few classes together, and the other month she messaged me asking if she could join my group, I said yes. Anyway there has been a few signs she likes me brushing up against me now and again, liking and commenting on everything I put on Facebook, giving me a nickname as well me giving her nickname, staring at me in lectures, me and her just meeting on our own, to get work finished, sometimes this would be her idea, putting kisses on texts even if I don't.

    However, I recently asked her for a drink, to which said she was ill, at first I thought she was not interested after saying this, but she told me we will go some other time, So I decided to ask again, to which this time she said wasn't at uni. Few days after that, she said to me we will go for that drink soon again. So, I decided for the last time to ask her again, and she told me that she wasn't back at uni until after Easter.

    What should I do ? is this girl completely playing me or not. It's proper confusing I do like her, but these mixed messages are completely messing with me

    if she wasnt at uni maybe she was genuinly ill, if you like her and you keep asking her she might start getting annoyed, give her some space and let her ask you

    I don't think she's necessarily "playing you" - she might just like you in a friendly way. The liking and commenting on everything you put on Facebook seems a bit odd, but I don't usually judge peoples' intentions based on their actions on Facebook, because that way lies madness.
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