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    (Original post by whorace)
    If you're hot and he's straight zero. If you're average/ugly and he's straight about 1%.
    That's good to know. I feel pretty insecure about all of this. I've never planned something like this before.
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    (Original post by whorace)
    If you're hot and he's straight zero. If you're average/ugly and he's straight about 1%.
    I would 100% turn down a fat girl......
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    (Original post by Limpopo)
    1) It depends on the circs. Where she lived, the time of day etc. If i thought it might help, i would offer but certainly wouldnt insist. I dont think it implies any kind of relationship.

    2) It depends on your intentions, what if anything you would like to happen and whether the guy was likely to be receptive to any overtures you may make.
    For example, i once got chatting to a woman on line. We swapped emails and seemed to have a lot in common. We decided to meet for a chat and say hi/have a drink. The bar was in a nice hotel. We got on well and after an hour or so, i upped to leave. She caught my hand and said,." ive booked a room if you;d like to use it.."

    3) No it doesnt imply sex nor should you expect a guy to have sex with you just because you ask him to your room. You should be more certain that he would be receptive before asking as he may already have a GF or even a married partner,he may also see you as just a friend
    Him thinking of me as just a friend is what worries me the most. Thanks for your reply.

    (Original post by NotAPaedo)
    A sane guy would never reject such a proposal. Great idea
    I wish some of my female friends would take the lead with me. Do you have any idea how difficult it is to track people down and find the opportune moments? It seriously tires me out.
    oh haha. Well I have never took the lead before so I am pretty nervous! It's going to be hard but worth it in the end I hope.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    That's good to know. I feel pretty insecure about all of this. I've never planned something like this before.
    Could reject for ego boost and if in relationship but unlikely, as long as you can keep him aroused he's not going to care much. I understand while you would feel like insecure but just play to your strengths, he's probably not going to give a damn if you come off shy and anxious as long as he knows your intent.
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    (Original post by Ablicious)
    I would 100% turn down a fat girl......
    it's good that I'm not fat.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Please keep anon. I have a several questions for guys:

    1. If you have drinks with a platonic female friend alone at a pub at night, would you escort her home for her safety? Or does this only apply to girlfriend/boyfriend relationship?

    2. What is the best way to invite a guy in to my hotel room after meeting up for dinner, if this wasnt exactly a 'date'?

    3. Does inviting a guy to my hotel room imply sex? (I am asking guys opinions here. Would you think she wants sex?)

    Thanks.
    I wouldn't assume it specifically would lead to that... just that it would be likely. That being said, if you were going to do this I would make it specifically indicated that the date was more of a chilled out affair(No pun intended).

    Inviting someone to a hotel room does have its connotations.
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    (Original post by Ablicious)
    I would 100% turn down a fat girl......
    Are we including these people on the scale? I didn't exactly include 60 year olds either. If she's so fat she doesn't arouse you then obviously not. If you're slightly above average weight (a little chubby) a lot of guys are still going to go for it because at the end of the day it's sex on a plate, if it's crap you just go back to business.
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    (Original post by whorace)
    Could reject for ego boost and if in relationship but unlikely, as long as you can keep him aroused he's not going to care much. I understand while you would feel like insecure but just play to your strengths, he's probably not going to give a damn if you come off shy and anxious as long as he knows your intent.
    I am 99% certain he is not in a relationship. Oh damn it would be awkward if he is.
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    I would recommend that especially if alcohol has been involved (and may be involved in further quantities), and especially in the setting of a hotel room, that you do not invite a guy in under such circumstances. It just isn't wise.
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    (Original post by whorace)
    Are we including these people on the scale? I didn't exactly include 60 year olds either. If she's so fat she doesn't arouse you then obviously not. If you're slightly above average weight (a little chubby) a lot of guys are still going to go for it because at the end of the day it's sex on a plate, if it's crap you just go back to business.

    Being fat can make someone normally good looking ugly.


    Well 'fat' is subjective so depends on the person.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Him thinking of me as just a friend is what worries me the most. Thanks for your reply.



    oh haha. Well I have never took the lead before so I am pretty nervous! It's going to be hard but worth it in the end I hope.

    Well maybe you could tell us some more? Im guessing you have the hots for a guy and want to move it on a little but are nervous about it?


    If so,well you have to be careful about what you want. I mean if you just tip the wink to almost any guy that you;d like to have sex with them, then most of them will happily obliged. Heck if you gave me the nod and hotel room no,i;d be right round.

    But sex doesnt equal flourishing relationship so if you just shag him,well he might just think,,wow,thanks a lot,,and err,,walk away or assume you are his latest Booty call??
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    (Original post by Ablicious)
    Being fat can make someone normally good looking ugly.


    Well 'fat' is subjective so depends on the person.
    Depends on what you value as well, if her face is ok it might make up a little, doggy will be a bit crap though :lol:
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I would recommend that especially if alcohol has been involved (and may be involved in further quantities), and especially in the setting of a hotel room, that you do not invite a guy in under such circumstances. It just isn't wise.
    Live without risk you don't get any reward. Not saying you aren't right, for safety reasons this would be the best option, it's a 100% chance you don't get laid though and might miss out on getting to know a great person.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Please keep anon. I have a several questions for guys:

    1. If you have drinks with a platonic female friend alone at a pub at night, would you escort her home for her safety? Or does this only apply to girlfriend/boyfriend relationship?

    2. What is the best way to invite a guy in to my hotel room after meeting up for dinner, if this wasnt exactly a 'date'?

    3. Does inviting a guy to my hotel room imply sex? (I am asking guys opinions here. Would you think she wants sex?)

    Thanks.
    1. Yeah, if it's far and she's walking.
    2. Literally just ask him if he wants to come up. If it's not for sex then point out why you want him to come up beause otherwise, as we see with 3...
    3. Yes that will be the presumption. Unless it's for a specific purpose or if one of you is in a relationship.
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    1. If you have drinks with a platonic female friend alone at a pub at night, would you escort her home for her safety? Or does this only apply to girlfriend/boyfriend relationship?
    I would escort a female friend home if we've been out drinking to a pub/bar and it was super late. I would probably escort any friend home (male or female) too if they were super drunk and I was worried about them getting home safely.

    2. What is the best way to invite a guy in to my hotel room after meeting up for dinner, if this wasnt exactly a 'date'?
    Just ask "Hey wanna come in for a bit?" or something along those lines? It depends on the situation really, if you were friends with that person and it clearly wasn't a date then it would just be a friendly invitation so you could either hang out some more/watch TV or they could use your bathroom.

    3. Does inviting a guy to my hotel room imply sex? (I am asking guys opinions here. Would you think she wants sex?)
    In short, yes and no. No if you're platonic friends. If any of my female friends invited me to come into their house after a night out I would just see it as a friendly invitation for us to chill/hang out or a chance to use their bathroom before I have to leave.

    If on the other hand it was someone I'd just gone on a nice date with/out for drinks and they invited me up to their hotel room afterwards, yes it would probably imply that she wanted to hook up.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)

    Well, it is platonic. But about to get romantic..
    It depends on your friendship. You know all those threads can you ever be just friends with the opposite sex, You know him, probably be fine, but if not things wouldnt be the same.
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    (Original post by Ablicious)
    1) I would escort any female friend home

    2) Ask them in for a drink

    3) I would generally assume this meant sex yes.
    Spot on.

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    (Original post by Anonymous;[url="tel:63580597")
    63580597[/url]]Please keep anon. I have a several questions for guys:

    1. If you have drinks with a platonic female friend alone at a pub at night, would you escort her home for her safety? Or does this only apply to girlfriend/boyfriend relationship?

    2. What is the best way to invite a guy in to my hotel room after meeting up for dinner, if this wasnt exactly a 'date'?

    3. Does inviting a guy to my hotel room imply sex? (I am asking guys opinions here. Would you think she wants sex?)

    Thanks.
    1) Of course I would
    2) Shall we go back to my room for a drink and watch TV?
    3) Yes. But you can say what's on your mind and what you're up for
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    1 - yes.
    2 - idk.
    3 - yes.
 
 
 
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