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Is he interested or losing interest? watch

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    So for the last week and a half I've been freaking out that my boyfriend of 4 months isn't that into me, since he hasn't really texted me in the last week and a half. He's been busy every night since then, and we've talked three twice, but that's been me ringing him.

    I asked him for a drink tonight and we went and it was fine, like nothing was changed.

    I also feel like quite often it's me making the first move- ringing him or asking to meet up. But then I asked him if he wanted to see me next week when we're off, and he said he just assumed I was going to stay round his for that entire week. Then we made plans for all the things we wanted to do in that time. He's also away quite often weekends on business so he told me which weekends he was going to be away for the next 4 months so I could write it into my phone, which seems like some sort of thinking of commitment?

    I thought all the signs pointed towards him losing interest since he doesn't initiate much, but maybe I was just over thinking it and he just likes the fact that I'm making the effort?

    What do you make of the situation?

    Sounds fine.

    If business is the name of his mistress.

    You sound paranoid.

    Ask him.
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