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    I have a work collegue who is lovely.
    Friendly to everyone and he is nice to me. He goes everywhere with everyone and will happily go out alone with everyone in the office no matter what they look like. Even if he isn't that keen on them. But with me, just the suggestion that he goes on a visit with me has him a nervous wreck and he will subtly try everything to get out of it.

    On the odd occasion that we are on our own together he is quiet and will then flirt a bit.

    He has a girlfriend and I think it might be related to that as I think he finds me attractive. He always checks me out discreetly.

    The thing is, it's now affecting the office environment. He won't be on his own with me unless forced and seems so conflicted around me. I wish he would just relax. I tried to make him feel at ease by chatting to other guys so that he wouldn't think I fancied him and he got jealous so maybe there are feelings there's on his part.

    What could be the reasons why he doesn't want to be alone with me? He certainly
    Doesn't dislike me.
    I am physically better looking than him so I'm wondering if he thinks im out of his league.

    I would love to know what would make someone like this. Any ideas? I'm never flirty with him.
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    bloody hell you're a bit full of yourself aren't you
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I am physically better looking than him so I'm wondering if he thinks im out of his league.
    lol ok
 
 
 
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