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girl taller than guy?

Guys: Would you date/have you dated a girl taller than you? If you've dated one, did it bother you and would you do it again? If you haven't, would you?

Girls: Have you ever dated a guy shorter than you? Experiences?

I've met someone who is shorter than me--I'm tall so that's not so crazy--and so far it's been OK. But I've never dated someone shorter and I'm worried things might not progress further if he starts to get insecure about it :s-smilie:

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Reply 1

Being 6'2" having a girl taller than yoda is quite a novelty.

Reply 2

wouldn't bother me :smile:

Reply 3

I dated a guy who was shorter than me and it didn't make any difference because I liked him so height was irrelevant - i do prefer guys to be a bit taller than me though.

Reply 4

I prefer a guy to be taller than me.

Reply 5

Well. Anyone Taller than me I would guess would be kind of weird?

Can't see it bothering me if I like them though tbh.

Reply 6

shady lane
Guys: Would you date/have you dated a girl taller than you?
If you've dated one, did it bother you and would you do it again?
1 - Am doing so!

2 - Did what bother me, exactly? Screw prejudices and be your own person! :biggrin:

Reply 7

Depends on how much shorter they are. I'm 6' and I went out with a guy who was 5'9". That was ok.

Reply 8

I went out with a girl taller than me before and a girl much shorter, height isn't an issue as far as I am concerned, it's the person they are.

Reply 9

I'm 5'10", he's 5'8"...and so cute! :p:

OK so it seems several guys don't care, that's good news...our dates so far have involved a lot of sitting down!

Reply 10

a girl taller than me would be scary :eek: (im 6'3" btw :p:)

Reply 11

Hunni it kinda sounds like you've already decided whether its an issue!!

In reality it'll be one if you make it one, he hasn't mentioned it so far, so why worry? It's only a two inch height difference, which ain't really that much.

Obviously, gender stereotypes and relationship stereotypes I guess, would suggest the male should be taller etc... but nowadays it really doesn't matter.

Chances are he does feel a little bit insecure about it, but if he's a normal guy he'll realise he can't do anything about it and he likes you anyway so it doesn't matter.

I'm 5ft 8 maybe 9 btw, so I do empathise...

Reply 12

yeah i'm 5'10/11 and i'd rather date someone taller but there seems to be a distinct lack of tall guys where i live. hmmph

Reply 13

I'm 6'2", so as some have said, a girl taller than me would be a novelty!

Reply 14

Well, I'm 5'5" so anybody shorter than me is taking the piss a bit...

As a rule I never go for guys under 6', something about feeling small and feminine appeals to my vanity.

Reply 15

Is it not odd that we cannot say ****** yet piss is okay? I mean... :s-smilie:

Reply 16

Timeslikethese
Well, I'm 5'5" so anybody shorter than me is taking the piss a bit...

As a rule I never go for guys under 6', something about feeling small and feminine appeals to my vanity.

Do you whip out the measuring tape just to check? :p:
And yes I agree with the last part.

Reply 17

blackswan
Do you whip out the measuring tape just to check? :p:
And yes I agree with the last part.


Well the guys I like are always above 6' though my fiance is dead on. And i'd hate him to be any shorter, I suppose that's the best way to explain it.

Reply 18

Being around 6'4, you'll have your work cut out finding a girl taller than me.

Reply 19

ALEXnk
Being around 6'4, you'll have your work cut out finding a girl taller than me.


:ditto: Any girl who is 6'5+ would be some kind of Amazon-freak, which isn't very attractive. I tend to go for girls who are actually quite short, generally under 5'5".