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Everyday I replay the chances I had in my head over and over again and think about how I wish I ha not been too nervous and done something different but you can never ever ever go back in time
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Everyday I replay the chances I had in my head over and over again and think about how I wish I ha not been too nervous and done something different but you can never ever ever go back in time
You can always try again. No?
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first catch is always hard
make sure you get the next one
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Everyday I replay the chances I had in my head over and over again and think about how I wish I ha not been too nervous and done something different but you can never ever ever go back in time
If it makes you feel any better I have taken the leap many times and been rejected. Don't worry though: you are never too late. There are always other means of getting what you want.
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Have you tried not hating yourself
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You can always try again. No?
Not really
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Not really
Why not?
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first catch is always hard
make sure you get the next one
I don't feel like I will get another one (another crush)
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Why not?
Because school is about to end forever and I won't ever see her again
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There's plenty of fish in the sea
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Because school is about to end forever and I won't ever see her again
A few more weeks surely.
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I don't feel like I will get another one (another crush)
all good things to those who wait
seems hard at the start but it always gets better
like we have adapted to heartbreaks lol
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A few more weeks surely.
Yes but it seems extremely unlikely something could happen in the such small time that remains. Also everyone is focusing a lot on revision at this point rather than socialising. There is still a chance but I don't have my hopes up, also I would feel kind I guilty distracting her from her work lol.
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Yes but it seems extremely unlikely something could happen in the such small time that remains. Also everyone is focusing a lot on revision at this point rather than socialising. There is still a chance but I don't have my hopes up, also I would feel kind I guilty distracting her from her work lol.
Just pluck up the courage and ask her out.
The worse she can say is NO
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Well you've said the solution yourself already; you can never go back in time so why worry.

Why worry about the thousands of could-haves/almost-weres/very-nearlys/possibilities in your life, what matters is what you do now. You have the chance to still speak to this crush now and do many other good things in your life.

What a tragedy to always be stuck looking retrospectively.
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Just pluck up the courage and ask her out.
The worse she can say is NO
I can't just do it out of the blue, I'll be a stuttering mess and it will creep her out
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Maybe you can still do something g now- I hope it's not too late for you.
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I've messed things up with the girl of my dreams before - a lot of us have been there just like you
it's been very tragic and sad for me especially, whereby I grieved for 2 years, passing up sex with another girl because of it
but you just need to give it time, and one night stands (if and when you can catch them) accelerate the process
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I don't feel like I will get another one (another crush)
don't worry you will find more crushes LOL. um... personal experience year 10 I had my first, year 11 I had three, and now in year 12 I am crushing on my economics teacher XD
yeah, I got rejected from all 4 to be honest (excl. my teacher ). Just keep your confidence up & have no regrets m8. Blaze it, and be daring! Who care's really what other people think.
So yeah, don't worry as a guy you'll find a way to pick out girls you like.
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I chickened out the first time went to speak to my crush. I regretted since then and when i got another chance, i took it.
I approached her randomly and she was suprised but she was really nice to me. We had a good chat. Its over now but i spoke to her and my confidence increased a lot.

If you get another chance , just go for it. The worst she will do is say no. She msy even like you, the only way to find out is by speaking to her.
Hope this helped. Good luck!
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