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    It always does.
    Be strong!
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    You just have to accept it as it is and move on.
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    Go and get drunk and get laid. Done.
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    I'm a girl and my ex cheated on me with someone else i knew, they got toeghter and then he ended up trying to talk to me again, It hurt like HELL and tbh i didnt think i would get over him, i was 16, i am 19 now, and i have gotten over him, i have a good bf now ive been with for 1.5 years so far, the point i am trying to make is it does get better, i thought my ex was "the one" but at the end of it i saw he didn't care about me, like i did for him and i was better off without him. He was NOT the person i was mean't to be with. Or i would be still with him. The fact is that life does carry on and i was a wreck, but ask yourself if she was the one she would care about you and feel the same back to you. My advice is focus on yourself and remember you make yourself, know one else. They are apart of your life, yes , no matter how big or small, but it doesn't shape you and doesn't make you. Next you will find someone that will think you are their world and everything. I couldn't think i would be happy as i am now again. But time does heal. Also, i think you meeting up with her again only bought back the pain. All i can advice is from my past ex and relationship. i did want him back for ages even though he cheated and lied. But i am stronger now and i would never take that again. I'm trying to say it will get better, and next time don't put your happiness in to just one person- make your own.

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    Summer.
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    (Original post by Britishsunset)
    I'm a girl and my ex cheated on me with someone else i knew, they got toeghter and then he ended up trying to talk to me again, It hurt like HELL and tbh i didnt think i would get over him, i was 16, i am 19 now, and i have gotten over him, i have a good bf now ive been with for 1.5 years so far, the point i am trying to make is it does get better, i thought my ex was "the one" but at the end of it i saw he didn't care about me, like i did for him and i was better off without him. He was NOT the person i was mean't to be with. Or i would be still with him. The fact is that life does carry on and i was a wreck, but ask yourself if she was the one she would care about you and feel the same back to you. My advice is focus on yourself and remember you make yourself, know one else. They are apart of your life, yes , no matter how big or small, but it doesn't shape you and doesn't make you. Next you will find someone that will think you are their world and everything. I couldn't think i would be happy as i am now again. But time does heal. Also, i think you meeting up with her again only bought back the pain. All i can advice is from my past ex and relationship. i did want him back for ages even though he cheated and lied. But i am stronger now and i would never take that again. I'm trying to say it will get better, and next time don't put your happiness in to just one person- make your own.

    Kind Regards

    Summer.
    Yh the thing is I dont have any female friends, she was literally the only female contact i had and all i needed.



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    (Original post by GothicShield)
    Life is short...ok

    Isit really worth it if you can't spend it with the one you love.

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    pathetic, sorry but it is.
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    (Original post by Oilfreak1)
    pathetic, sorry but it is.
    Give him some time, sure he'll change his mind, well i hope he does.

    Join a social group or something, heartbreak is painful, have a joint

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