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    Another random topic for today, what's the worst lie or decepition you've ever had in a relationship? Did you forgive them or not?
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    I like you but just as a friend :o::cry:
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    (Original post by Rock Fan)
    Another random topic for today, what's the worst lie or decepition you've ever had in a relationship? Did you forgive them or not?
    My boyfriend said he'd put sugar in my tea the other day, when in fact he hadn't done deliberately to see if i'd notice. I forgave him a few hours later but can't trust there will be sugar in my tea anymore.
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    (Original post by claireestelle)
    My boyfriend said he'd put sugar in my tea the other day, when in fact he hadn't done deliberately to see if i'd notice. I forgave him a few hours later but can't trust there will be sugar in my tea anymore.
    Thats your worst? Someone lying about putting sugar in your tea.
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    (Original post by Kholmes1)
    Thats your worst? Someone lying about putting sugar in your tea.
    I know its sounds daft but it is honestly the only lie.
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    He told me he was impotent but I think he actually is. It was an ex though
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    (Original post by Rock Fan)
    Another random topic for today, what's the worst lie or decepition you've ever had in a relationship? Did you forgive them or not?
    I always had loved currry, i always ate it and loved it. Until this one night i decided to get an extra spicy curry and i trusted it would kill me too much but alas my trust was betrayed and my butt regretted everything that came out the morning after
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    "I only stop you from going out because I love you"

    Seriously guys, if your partner tries to control anything about you (for me it was where and when I went out, who I saw, what I wore, makeup, jewellery etc) then you need to leave asap. If they loved you they'd accept you for who you are and not try to control you.
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    She ate the last doughnut. Then tried to lie about it. :eek::eek:

    It destroyed me.

    Only just starting to recover from the trauma.
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    (Original post by georgiaswift)
    "I only stop you from going out because I love you"

    Seriously guys, if your partner tries to control anything about you (for me it was where and when I went out, who I saw, what I wore, makeup, jewellery etc) then you need to leave asap. If they loved you they'd accept you for who you are and not try to control you.
    Honestly I'm interfering in the sense I'll say something to my gf if I disagree with her lifestyle choice. I also take on what she says.

    Sometimes tis about helping each other develop into better people.

    Where the interference and advice is OTT and illogical then it's time to get the door.
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    (Original post by georgiaswift)
    "I only stop you from going out because I love you"

    Seriously guys, if your partner tries to control anything about you (for me it was where and when I went out, who I saw, what I wore, makeup, jewellery etc) then you need to leave asap. If they loved you they'd accept you for who you are and not try to control you.
    Agreed wholeheartedly.
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    "I love you and you're the only woman I can see myself with. I want to spend my life with you. Let's move in together."

    *texting new girlfriend every time I leave the room*



    I found out by accident a couple of months later (he was showing me pics on his phone and accidentally showed me a naked photo she had sent him). Told him to go to hell, he cut her off and said he wanted me, told him to go to hell anyway.


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    The worst was finding out that someone I absolutely trusted and loved had deceived.

    After this I realised that the only thing you can absolutely know is true is something you've seen with your own eyes. And I understood why hearsay isn't encouraged in a court.
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    'Honestly, i'll do absolutely anything to keep us together, I really want this'
    Moves back to Poland

    -.-
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    You can't talk to any other girls
    Oh I can talk to this guy though but we're only friends
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    It's over I'm dating someone else (guess who)


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