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    How can I show a girl I like her without being to needy?

    I want to try see if the girl like me without actually asking her, if I did ask her and she said no, she would tell everyone at work and it would make it super awkward and embarrassing.

    I've started to speak to her on Facebook and that stop but I want to try start it again but I don't want to look needy, just In case she doesn't like me.
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    How can I show a girl I like her without being to needy?

    I want to try see if the girl like me without actually asking her, if I did ask her and she said no, she would tell everyone at work and it would make it super awkward and embarrassing.

    I've started to speak to her on Facebook and that stop but I want to try start it again but I don't want to look needy, just In case she doesn't like me.
    Flirt with her on fb and if she don't respond back off dont keep messaging her.
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    Chat to her and see how open and welcoming to this she is. If she's very closed off and uninterested, then leave it. But if you believe that she'd gossip about it to everyone at work then surely she isn't someone you'd want to be with anyway?
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    Invite her out for a drink, if she doesn't like you she will make an excuse or be very vague about availability.
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    Do you speak to her in person?

    Don't start talking to her on facebook out of nowhere. Just chat to her in person, be relaxed, don't go into it thinking you need to ask her out. Take it slow, get to know her and then after a while of talking to her regularly just ask her if she wants to hang out sometime.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    How can I show a girl I like her without being to needy?

    I want to try see if the girl like me without actually asking her, if I did ask her and she said no, she would tell everyone at work and it would make it super awkward and embarrassing.

    I've started to speak to her on Facebook and that stop but I want to try start it again but I don't want to look needy, just In case she doesn't like me.
    leave her wanting to talk so as a conversation reaches its peak say you have something to do urgently
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    be specific and make sure that you prove the point if it comes up again so i'll say i have to got deal hunting the start off with a few deals that i found normally as i deal in the some gold jewellery and a rolex and a more unique watch
 
 
 
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