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    Recently, I've been having major insecurities and felt so small compared to every other girl. But it's mainly because a situation happened when someone I trusted hurts me in the worst way ever, so trusting has been an issue and I need to reassured a lot.
    I really need to get back to the mind set of not caring too much because i'm too young to be stressed. And it's been affecting my relationship because i've been more jealous than I ever have. Not clingy, but easily see other females as a threat.
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    Recently, I've been having major insecurities and felt so small compared to every other girl. But it's mainly because a situation happened when someone I trusted hurts me in the worst way ever, so trusting has been an issue and I need to reassured a lot.
    I really need to get back to the mind set of not caring too much because i'm too young to be stressed. And it's been affecting my relationship because i've been more jealous than I ever have. Not clingy, but easily see other females as a threat.
    I'm really sorry you're feeling like this, it's competely understandable for you to have some trust issues when someone close to you has hurt you but there are good people out there, whom you will meet, get to know and be able to rely on. You just need to allow yourself to find these people and know that none of this situation was your fault, and while it hurts now, you've seen this person for what they truly are and you can keep your distance. You have absolutely no reason to be insecure and so much of confidence just comes from 'faking it till you make it'. The main thing to do now, is speak to your family and friends about how you're feeling and put yourself out into the world to meet new people and find new experiences that will improve your mood and life experiences, good luck!
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    i also trust people easily but they also break my trust
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    Trust someone until they give you a single reason not to. I've had too much bs so I have a zero tolerance now, break my trust and i'll never forgive you.
 
 
 
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