Help pleaseee

OP

He has never had a problem with credit before, so I guessed that he is contract. It just seems a little weird that he is able to text at 4am one morning, then not again the next day for a week. I just don't think it's a broken phone, and I'm sure as not gonna ring it!

Reply 3

generalebriety

16

Phone him. :rolleyes:

It's not a point-scoring game.

Reply 4

OP

I'm not trying to score points. But if I have text him a couple of times and had nothing back, then I'm not gonna ring him. I'd feel stupid, particularly if it turned out (as it would) that his phone is fine. What am I meant to say - 'why haven't you text me?'

Reply 5

Don't worry hun. this is typical male behaviour and basically means he is still deciding what he wants from you. The amount a man txts/calls is directly correlated to how much he likes you. In the beginning (the chase) he's calling/txting all the time. When the chase is over he doesn't care so much. He thinks he has you and we as women lust after the early days and take over the txting/calling. If he decides he wants you for whatever reason (even as just a booty call) he'll apolgise and explain/give an excuse blah blah. If he's not interesed prob won't reply to texts.

Reply 6

Try be strong. resist the urge to call/txt - it won't change the way he feels.

Reply 7

OP

Thanks

. Yeah I'm not gonna call/text. It wont help the situ in a positive way at all. I'm just so annoyed!

Reply 8

OP

I just don't see why the interest suddenly waned like that!

Reply 9

generalebriety

16

Oh do sod off then if you're not going to take advice. :s-smilie:

What do you actually want from us if you don't want our advice?

Reply 10

2026

15

I would call. Whats the worst that can happen?

Reply 11

Oh do sod off then if you're not going to take advice.

Uncalled for. She is asking for everyones advice not just yours mate

Reply 12

OP

Melissa85

Oh do sod off then if you're not going to take advice.

Uncalled for. She is asking for everyones advice not just yours mate

Thank you. I am accepting your advice, and thank you for posting. But does that mean I have to take it generalebriety?

Reply 13

Melissa85

Oh do sod off then if you're not going to take advice.

Uncalled for. She is asking for everyones advice not just yours mate

Less of the misandric crap then okay? I for one resent your sentiments, especially as its a sweeping generalisation full of bile. Pack it in.

OP - phone him, the answer is simple. He has the answers not us. If not, it just shows he's probably a bit of an ******* to begin with, either that or is more 'complicated' then you've given him credit for.

Reply 14

'Sod off' , 'Pack it in, ' - my you are a gentleman indeed.

I'm not bashing your opinion, why the need to bash mine.

As to not get off topic. lets put it simply, if you really liked a bird would you be taking chances on missing her calls and not replying to her texts? No credit is not an excuse - you could always go buy some.

Most the men I know txt/call the bird they are into asap. Not hating on men just telling of my life experiences.

There is nothing worse that a man who cries 'misandry, misandry.'

To top it off I know the OP will call him again. She won't be able to help her self. trust me I've been there.

Reply 15

Melissa85

'Sod off' [Amusing that this wasn't actually me] , 'Pack it in, ' - my you are a gentleman indeed.

You don't deserve any gentlemanly behaviour when you seek to do nothing but portray slanderous comments and consequently attack my character. Respect is a virtue earned, not given.

I'm not bashing your opinion, why the need to bash mine.

Because it's a sweeping statement full of bile, that's why. You cannot generalise regarding human activity. We're all different, or have you failed to grasp that concept? How would you like it if I claimed all women do nothing but play games and tear out the hearts of genuine guys whilst complaining none exist? Quite frankly, most of my experience revolves around such. However, the reason I don't claim this is because I'm astute enough to realise that you cannot tar everyone with the same sodding brush. It's about time you realised that too. Who knows, you might not be on here claiming you've "lost faith in humanity" if you changed your outlook.

Most [Not all?] the men I know txt/call the bird they are into asap. Not hating on men just telling of my life experiences.

And now you're contradicting yourself; you're acknowledging, albeit subtly that not everyone is the same.

There is nothing worse that a man who cries 'misandry, misandry.'

There's nothing worse than a bitter woman who hasn't grasped the concept of subjectivity. Tell me, why is it you hate men so? It's quite sad to see such a twisted outlook. It's also disgusting that the venom which women like you just love to regurgitate tarnish the name of genuine blokes. I doubt you'd be able to spot a genuine bloke if he jumped up and bit you in the backside.

To top it off I know the OP will call him again. She won't be able to help her self. trust me I've been there.

What? Being as that's what a fair proportion of posters are suggesting she does; that's not exactly a bad thing.

Reply 16

OP

I actually wont call. The fear of being rejected far outweighs my curiosity.

Reply 17

asosasos

I actually wont call. The fear of being rejected far outweighs my curiosity.

Okay, then my suggestion is as follows:

Firstly, stop fretting. Either text him in a few days or ask him to his face when you next see him. Personally, I'd prefer to know exactly where I stood with someone regardless of rejection. Sometimes you need to hold your head high.

Reply 18

OP

Nix!

Okay, then my suggestion is as follows:

Firstly, stop fretting. Either text him in a few days or ask him to his face when you next see him. Personally, I'd prefer to know exactly where I stood with someone regardless of rejection. Sometimes you need to hold your head high.

Yeah you are right. I think I might wait til after my last exam, which is next week, then just make that call. I suppose it can't be any worse than it is at the moment. Thanks :smile:

Reply 19