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    Help me,

    Soon for a year and a half I have had a crush on this guy. Finally he breaks up with his girlfriend, we are talking now and we went out on a date last week. I love the idea of us but I'm struggling with the reality. I haven't kissed him or anything because i am avoiding it, not because i don't like him but because he's been one of my best friends for so long and theres a part of me that finds it strange. Help me pleaseeee

    I think it sounds good, sometimes you have chemistry with someone and one or both of you are already in a relationship but then down the line that changes and there becomes a possibility for something more. These are the kind of friendships that can develop in to relationships.

    Probably you are stressing because you fear that once you cross a line, if it doesn't work, then you won't be as close as friends any more. I think you both just have to discuss this and agree that because of the way you have known each other in the past, that you will always have at least that and not break apart from each other if things don't work out.

    But in general I think its a good idea to pursue something.
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