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The Pros and Cons of nookie-buddies

So who's ever had a sex buddy? (no strings, non-emotional, sex on a plate)

What were the pros and cons of this lifestyle? Whould you do it again?

If you have never done it before, would you contemplate it?

If someone wanted to be your sex buddy, how would you respond?

I'm tempted to email this to someone 'for a laugh' and gage his response:



Feel free to steal and use :biggrin:

P.S. I dun want to talk about my sex life, so lets keep this generic. thx :redface:
Reply 1
You could develop feelings for the sex buddy, they could not even like you that way.
Tufts
So who's ever had a sex buddy? (no strings, non-emotional, sex on a plate)

What were the pros and cons of this lifestyle? Whould you do it again?

If you have never done it before, would you contemplate it?

If someone wanted to be your sex buddy, how would you respond?

I'm tempted to email this to someone 'for a laugh' and gage his response:



Feel free to steal and use :biggrin:

P.S. I dun want to talk about my sex life, so lets keep this generic. thx :redface:

Why the hell have you put this in H&R then? Stop attention seeking. :rolleyes:
Reply 3
Sex buddy=guilty for me
Reply 4
+ Sex whenever i wanted.
+ Sober sex (downside of ONS')
+ Lots and lots of FUN

- Gossip
A friend asked if I wanted him to be my sex buddy but i could see myself potentially having feelings for him so said no.. i guess that's a major risk you take when having a sex buddy.
Reply 6
englishstudent
Why the hell have you put this in H&R then? Stop attention seeking. :rolleyes:


lol I would SO have posted this anon if I could.

Anyway, is it attention seeking to want to discuss this topic? I tried to ask folks in a more subtle manner over in the "one night stands" thread but it was ignored.

If you really think this is simply an attention seeking stunt and not an invitation for information (the reality), then by all means I will lock it right away.
Reply 7
englishstudent
Why the hell have you put this in H&R then? Stop attention seeking. :rolleyes:

Are you thinking what I'm thinking?

That's my contribution to this thread. I don't trust my tongue.
Reply 8
sweetface.
You could develop feelings for the sex buddy, they could not even like you that way.


Thats what I was worried about. I've never had a sex buddy before - for that reason. I've always been emotionally frail I believe. However now I feel stronger.

Who's done it? How did it turn out? Was it worth it?
Tufts
lol I would SO have posted this anon if I could.

Anyway, is it attention seeking to want to discuss this topic? I tried to ask folks in a more subtle manner over in the "one night stands" thread but it was ignored.

If you really think this is simply an attention seeking stunt and not an invitation for information (the reality), then by all means I will lock it right away.

I do....
Reply 10
minimo
Are you thinking what I'm thinking?

That's my contribution to this thread. I don't trust my tongue.


Seriously guys. Have I done somthing wrong? :confused:

If its going to cause drama then I am prepared to lock pronto. But I thought this could be an interesting topic, because its usually taboo.
They think you're on about me.
Reply 12
englishstudent
I do....


okay fair enough. I dont want people to get the wrong idea.

Hopefully someone will assist me over at the ONS thread. *shrugs* :confused:

*locks*