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    I think about women a lot. I prefer lesbian porn but I will watch straight porn. I've never been aroused by gay porn. I don't mind ****** porn though. In my mind I see the ones I'm attracted to as women as that's what they look like. I have encounters mainly with women. I am attracted to women and notice them most of the time over any guy. In the future I'd like to get a gf for now I am enjoying being single though. I also wouldn't consider any type of relationship with a guy and essentially in like 20-30 years from now maybe I'd be open to getting married and having a wife.

    With guys in the sexual sense I do find some attractive. I had my first experience with a guy who identified as transgender when I was 15 but I didn't really think I liked the sex. So I thought I graduated sorta from the curious stage in my life. But honestly I have thought in the context of just ****ing without any strings attached I don't really care. I recently had another homosexual encounter with a guy and actually liked it. But I don't want anything more than that and could have easily gotten off with a woman just as well. Most often though I have sex with women. I've been with 2 guys that's like slightly less than 1 percent of all my encounters so far. So it's kind of rare. Also I don't like men as much as women. I prefer eating pussy and I like a woman's curves her soft touch and it fits a lot better than like with guys. Plus I'm not interested in bottoming either. I know I have a preference for women but is that exactly heteroflexibility or bisexuality with a preference that I described? What do you think?
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    I ask because I just took a test and the word heteroflexible came up. I don't get the difference though exactly.
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    You can choose from Gay, Straight, Bisexual or recently I have come to accept Asexual.
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    (Original post by justacollegekid)
    I think about women a lot. I prefer lesbian porn but I will watch straight porn. I've never been aroused by gay porn. I don't mind ****** porn though. In my mind I see the ones I'm attracted to as women as that's what they look like. I have encounters mainly with women. I am attracted to women and notice them most of the time over any guy. In the future I'd like to get a gf for now I am enjoying being single though. I also would consider any type of relationship with a guy and essentially in like 20-30 years from now maybe I'd be open to getting married and having a wife.

    With guys in the sexual sense I do find some attractive. I had my first experience with a guy who identified as transgender when I was 15 but I didn't really think I liked the sex. So I thought I graduated sorta from the curious stage in my life. But honestly I have thought in the context of just ****ing without any strings attached I don't really care. I recently had another homosexual encounter with a guy and actually liked it. But I don't want anything more than that and could have easily gotten off with a woman just as well. Most often though I have sex with women. I've been with 2 guys that's like slightly less than 1 percent of all my encounters so far. So it's kind of rare. Also I don't like men as much as women. I prefer eating pussy and I like a woman's curves her soft touch and it fits a lot better than like with guys. Plus I'm not interested in bottoming either. I know I have a preference for women but is that exactly heteroflexibility or bisexuality with a preference that I described? What do you think?
    You're neither heteroflexible or bisexual. You're an attention seeker.
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    (Original post by Butternuts96)
    You're neither heteroflexible or bisexual. You're an attention seeker.
    Well that's odd since no one knows irl about my gay encounters. lol


    Another term came up also supersexual of which I think described me very correctly as well.
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    (Original post by 1RM)
    You can choose from Gay, Straight, Bisexual or recently I have come to accept Asexual.
    There's more terms than that there's pansexuality and polysexuality and homoflexible. Etc... I think they're all subsets to the three or four you listed.
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    (Original post by justacollegekid)
    There's more terms than that there's pansexuality and polysexuality and homoflexible. Etc... I think they're all subsets to the three or four you listed.
    It's getting ridiculous. I could make one up right now ...... Just stick to the main 4.


    Either you like the same sex, opposite sex, both sexes or neither.
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    "Heteroflexible" ? I'm guessing that's something from Tumblr.

    You're straight, gay, bi, or asexual. Sometimes you might be curious and then decide to experiment, but those four are the only real ones.
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    I think you are tortoiseasexual, it's when you are really aroused by tortoises but you haven't come out of your shell yet.
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    Personally don't out a label on it if you're not sure at this stage
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    (Original post by 1RM)
    It's getting ridiculous. I could make one up right now ...... Just stick to the main 4.


    Either you like the same sex, opposite sex, both sexes or neither.
    yeah but there's a spectrum of all three.


    So like I could be bisexual with a preference for the opposite sex. Or mostly straight. I just don't really get what difference between the two is...
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    (Original post by MildredMalone)
    "Heteroflexible" ? I'm guessing that's something from Tumblr.

    You're straight, gay, bi, or asexual. Sometimes you might be curious and then decide to experiment, but those four are the only real ones.
    I'm not curious though... Bicurious is like experimenting. I've never really gone through that I know who I'm attracted to and who I'm not attracted to.
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    (Original post by justacollegekid)
    yeah but there's a spectrum of all three.


    So like I could be bisexual with a preference for the opposite sex. Or mostly straight. I just don't really get what difference between the two is...

    Yeah no one really uses them or knows what they mean. Just say your bisexual but sleep with men mostly or women mostly.

    You can't be 'mostly straight' haha.
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    (Original post by justacollegekid)
    Well that's odd since no one knows irl about my gay encounters. lol


    Another term came up also supersexual of which I think described me very correctly as well.
    You may be trisexual. You'll try anything sexual.
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    (Original post by Slowbro93)
    Personally don't out a label on it if you're not sure at this stage
    I'm not in the exploration period I've figured it out for the most part. It's just like I've identified as bi personally and sometimes it doesn't seem to fit for me completely.
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    i think its called homoaccessible
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    (Original post by 1RM)
    Yeah no one really uses them or knows what they mean. Just say your bisexual but sleep with men mostly or women mostly.

    You can't be 'mostly straight' haha.

    Yeah you can sexuality is a spectrum.

    So some people fall more on the straight side of things some land on gay side some land in between. I'm kind of inbewteen between and the hetero side idk. If that's a preference or flexibility
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    (Original post by justacollegekid)
    Yeah you can sexuality is a spectrum.

    So some people fall more on the straight side of things some land on gay side some land in between. I'm kind of inbewteen between and the hetero side idk. If that's a preference or flexibility

    Partially straight, I'm guessing means you're bisexual.


    As I said you're either Gay, straight, bi or Asexual. Pick one and you're done. If you like both men and women but prefer women more, it still means you're bisexual.
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    (Original post by WoodyMKC)
    You may be trisexual. You'll try anything sexual.
    well that's true. But trisexual means something else completely normally.
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    (Original post by 1RM)
    Partially straight, I'm guessing means you're bisexual.


    As I said you're either Gay, straight, bi or Asexual. Pick one and you're done. If you like both men and women but prefer women more, it still means you're bisexual.
    But normally I don't like men and when I do it's secondarily sexual. Meaning I don't get the same deal as I get with women but it's ok if that's who's available.
 
 
 
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