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    Okay so i'm going to start taking to this girl on Facebook however I don't know how to make the conversation last. What I mean by this is if she doesn't reply back with a message that can continue the conversation do I keep on asking question and try to push the conversation or do I leave it?
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    Okay so i'm going to start taking to this girl on Facebook however I don't know how to make the conversation last. What I mean by this is if she doesn't reply back with a message that can continue the conversation do I keep on asking question and try to push the conversation or do I leave it?
    If I were you I'd start talking face-to-face. If it starts on FB you will just get used to each other's fake words, best to just chill out and talk. But if you do want to go down theFB route, just make sure you don't annoy her. I know this is gonna sound bad, but don't reply instantly. Just take it easy... the less you talk the more she'll think about you.

    But seriously, facebook is something that should be avoided, you want reality - not fake profiles and face messages that can be perfected. Flirting's about the other person's reaction and you won't be able to see their genuine reaction to your voice/ words!

    hope that helped
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    If I were you I'd start talking face-to-face. If it starts on FB you will just get used to each other's fake words, best to just chill out and talk. But if you do want to go down theFB route, just make sure you don't annoy her. I know this is gonna sound bad, but don't reply instantly. Just take it easy... the less you talk the more she'll think about you.

    But seriously, facebook is something that should be avoided, you want reality - not fake profiles and face messages that can be perfected. Flirting's about the other person's reaction and you won't be able to see their genuine reaction to your voice/ words!

    hope that helped
    Sad that alot of people do this in real life though.
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    Don't force the conversation or look too desperate.

    I was 'talking' to someone that I was interested in a few months ago who I was interested in. I asked maybe 2 or 3 questions about them but they gave me one sentence replies so I just took it that they weren't interested and we haven't spoken since.
 
 
 
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