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    So I have been talking to this guy for 9 months now from my CiDA class. We get on really well and have alot of the same intrests but I really only like him as a friend.

    My friends noticed me chatting to him in pe, cida and out of class and teased me for a while but stopped when I told them it was making me quite anxious

    More recently another friend who is his friend too started saying things like " Doesn't (guys name) coat look nice, (my name) He looks really nice doesn't he."

    I ignored it at the time but looking back I think she was hinting. Today she asked if I wanted to meet up with her and him in the holiday and I said yes, but now im worried that it will be awkward. He is a really nice guy and all but I have no romantic feelings for him and dont want to ruin our friendship.

    Tbh im not really attracted to anyone (guys or girls) and starting to think that I might be aromatic.
    I dont know what to do
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    I spelt aromantic wrong i was on mobile when i typed this
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    Text her and just say it straight, don't make it weird, you don't like him like that, it'll really annoy you if that's what she's gonna do.
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    aromatic made me lol. Just tell him you like him just as a friend. No confusion and no further anxiousness.
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    Tell your friend what you told us on here.
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    Okay ill try, thanks
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    So I have been talking to this guy for 9 months now from my CiDA class. We get on really well and have alot of the same intrests but I really only like him as a friend.

    My friends noticed me chatting to him in pe, cida and out of class and teased me for a while but stopped when I told them it was making me quite anxious

    More recently another friend who is his friend too started saying things like " Doesn't (guys name) coat look nice, (my name) He looks really nice doesn't he."

    I ignored it at the time but looking back I think she was hinting. Today she asked if I wanted to meet up with her and him in the holiday and I said yes, but now im worried that it will be awkward. He is a really nice guy and all but I have no romantic feelings for him and dont want to ruin our friendship.

    Tbh im not really attracted to anyone (guys or girls) and starting to think that I might be aromatic.
    I dont know what to do
    Hmmm u might be aromatic? Is that the chemistry term or just trying to say that you smell? Maybe get a wash and put some perfume on and you might find other people attractive.
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    You know i didnt mean that and i said in the first comment that i miss spelled it
    Please if you havent got anything helpful to say go away. This is really stressing me out and i came on here because i have no one to talk about it with, not to get stupid answers!

    Prefume isnt going to make me have romantic feelings towards people either...
 
 
 
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