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Meeting a gal on Wednesday

Right, let's see if I can do a half decent job of explaining this.
On Tuesday, I went to a bar in town to meet some people about a house for next year as I'm still looking.
They were nice people, all of them. But I got talking to this one gal who's moving into another house next year. She's in her second year now, and she took a gap year before coming to uni, so she's 21, 2 years older than me. Anyway, at the end of the evening I got her number and gave her mine.

Now, I decided that yesterday, because I went on an Otley Run, would be a good time to text her, because I'd be just the right level of drunk; not too drunk that I'd make a prat of myself, but drunk enough to work up the courage to text her. So I sent her a text but she didn't remember who I was :frown:

. So I told her and, although I'm still not sure whether or not she remembers who I am, I'm going round her house on Wednesday.
Here's the thing. She wants me bring round some wine.

Now I don't know what to expect. To just be hanging around with her, or whether, because she now know's that I'm posibly interested in the house, I'll be seeing 'em all again, about the house. Anyone any ideas?

I'm sure I'll seem like a prat. And although the answer may seem obvious to you, it isn't to me. As Edward R. Murrow said, “The obscure we see eventually. The completely obvious, it seems, takes longer.”

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Reply 1

romeosbitch

probably, talking about the house, whilst drinking your wine. seems like the likely option.

Reply 2

dh00001

hm well what do you want it to be?
it could be either :s-smilie:

from the infomation given it isnt clear, i would say its to see the house but i could very well be wrong :s-smilie:

although its possible she rememberd who you are and so invited you.
either way just go and have fun :smile:

not forgetting the wine of course

Reply 3

matt@internet

Yeah lol Ok, oh well. I'll just expect to be seeing the house then, thanks.

Reply 4

dh00001

although that would be an ideal opportunity to try and get it more the other way :p:

Reply 5

matt@internet

Well we'll see won't we :wink:

Reply 6

Well, by the fact she couldn't remember who you were, i wouldn't get your hopes up. Its most likely to do with the house, but you never know. :smile:

Reply 7

matt@internet

3232

Well, by the fact she couldn't remember who you were, i wouldn't get your hopes up. Its most likely to do with the house, but you never know. :smile:

Yeah that's what I thought, but it could just be in my drunken state I gave her the wrong number or something. Although that wouldn't make her forget me. I've been purposefully NOT getting my hopes up anyway. When you get you hopes up it feels 10 times worse when things don't go your way eh?

Reply 8

puppy

Sounds like she wants some free wine.

Reply 9

matt@internet

Lol. Bah women :p:

Reply 10

Nix!

Text her:

You: What do you want the wine for?
Her: To drink.
You: Then buy it yourself skank.
Her: I want you.

Sorted.

Reply 11

matt@internet

Helpful

Reply 12

matt@internet

Apparently my friend thinks that, because of the wine, it's a, "date" was the word she used.
I should also point out, I guess, that I did ask her if she fancied going for a drink. Note that I asked just her. Personally I think that makes it clear what I want. But wether she'll see it that way remains to be seen. And my friend also suggests texting her, basically asking if this is so I can see her, or so I can see the house. Embarassing option :frown:

, but may be a good one. What d'you reckon?

Reply 13

dh00001

well if it is, happy days :biggrin:

Reply 14

Indeed, dust off those condoms and buy yourself some silk boxers, fella. :smile:

Reply 15

matt@internet

Hmm

Reply 16

DeepStar

dh00001

although that would be an ideal opportunity to try and get it more the other way :p:

yah my thoughts too, just take the wine and see what happens...be prepared for both i guess lol :smile:

Reply 17

britishseapower

3232

Indeed, dust off those condoms and buy yourself some silk boxers, fella. :smile:

silk boxers? I would feel less embarassed wearing a pair of Thunderbirds numbers

Reply 18

britishseapower

it seems an odd request if she is just showing you around the house. If she doesn't remember you and is asking you to bring wine, I would tell her to do one, if she does then there is a chance she may like you. Don't worry about it too much, just play it by ear, turn up on the day and see how it goes.