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    So I have a boyfriend, who has mental health issues, depression, anxiety, paranoia and psychosis, and I love him regardless.
    But I have a friend who I know is sort of a serial flirter, we met like two years ago and he flirted with me for a start but I made it pretty obvious I wasn't interested. Then I met my current guy and everything was fine.
    Seeing as I stopped the flirting me and the guy became pretty good friends, we'd talk and occasionally hang out and stuff everything was fine.
    Until he started flirting with me again, I don't react to it and ignore the flirty comments and try to change the topic or bring up my relationship. But I'm way too nice to say anything to him so the question is...
    Should I end the friendship? Like just not talk to him not let him flirt?
    Should I tell my Boyfriend? I'm not hiding it I just.. he gets really paranoid and I just don't know if I should...

    Or what?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    So I have a boyfriend, who has mental health issues, depression, anxiety, paranoia and psychosis, and I love him regardless.
    But I have a friend who I know is sort of a serial flirter, we met like two years ago and he flirted with me for a start but I made it pretty obvious I wasn't interested. Then I met my current guy and everything was fine.
    Seeing as I stopped the flirting me and the guy became pretty good friends, we'd talk and occasionally hang out and stuff everything was fine.
    Until he started flirting with me again, I don't react to it and ignore the flirty comments and try to change the topic or bring up my relationship. But I'm way too nice to say anything to him so the question is...
    Should I end the friendship? Like just not talk to him not let him flirt?
    Should I tell my Boyfriend? I'm not hiding it I just.. he gets really paranoid and I just don't know if I should...

    Or what?
    Tell the guy that you feel its inappropriate and want him to stop and see how it goes from there.
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    No need to tell your boyfriend just yet, especially as he's seriously mentally ill. You need to directly and openly tell your friend to stop. No need to be 'nice' about it, tell it as it is.
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    Thanks guys I'll give that a shot, I just am generally too nice but I'll see what I can do, we haven't spoken much recently, but if he continues to flirt with me I'll just tell him straight that it needs to stop.
 
 
 
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