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    Long story short. A guy I like is pretty inexperienced, he doesn't want a relationship but at the same time he it seems he finds it hard to get laid to be quite honest and I don't think he gets too much female attention. But I really like him. Anyway he just started sleeping with a girl who has been around the block and then some. She's had many lovers including 2 of his friends. She confessed to me that she sleeps with guys to feel pretty and to be honest she's quite an unattractive woman and is chubby.

    Apparently he is getting attached to her. Whilst it's not of my business I feel like it's not fair. I wait and have the discipline for something real but it seems I would be better off just getting on my knees of you know what I mean because it's always the girls who throw themselves at the guy who swoop in and get to the guys I like first.

    What do you think?
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    I think he's just settling/making the most out of what he's being offered. If you told him that you like him then I think he would probably be honest and tell you he doesn't actually like her etc and might even like you back
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    I think he's just settling/making the most out of what he's being offered. If you told him that you like him then I think he would probably be honest and tell you he doesn't actually like her etc and might even like you back
    I already told him I liked him a year ago and he said he wasn't interested in anything serious so I backed off. However he seems to be changing his mind with this girl. I know it sounds awful but I feel it's not fair because I feel if I would have jumped into bed with him like she always does then maybe he would have liked me. I'm so confused.
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    Yes no maybe. Why should it matter? If hes not that interested in you at the moment, then go and find someone who likes you and you like him. This idea of fairness is a bit bonkers. There are more out there than him.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Long story short. A guy I like is pretty inexperienced, he doesn't want a relationship but at the same time he it seems he finds it hard to get laid to be quite honest and I don't think he gets too much female attention. But I really like him. Anyway he just started sleeping with a girl who has been around the block and then some. She's had many lovers including 2 of his friends. She confessed to me that she sleeps with guys to feel pretty and to be honest she's quite an unattractive woman and is chubby.

    Apparently he is getting attached to her. Whilst it's not of my business I feel like it's not fair. I wait and have the discipline for something real but it seems I would be better off just getting on my knees of you know what I mean because it's always the girls who throw themselves at the guy who swoop in and get to the guys I like first.

    What do you think?
    I know who this is xD
 
 
 
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