Im a 21 year old woman, im with another woman we will have been together a year in may. When we first met even though i knew she wasnt conventionaly good looking i was attracted to her because we had a connection but i find that as time goes on im getting less and less attracted to her. I avoid sex and intimate moments, shes very clingy and likes to cuddle a lot which i dont like even on a good day. She makes it very clear that she feels shes 'out of my leauge'. When we do get intimate its very akward and uncomfortable for me. All the rest of the time we are great together we get on really well and have a good time together although this is starting to get affected now, we have started to argue when on nights out together. I do care for her and i really dont want to hurt her because she doesnt deserve it. I know im being superfical and i hate it ive always said looks dont matter to me but can you really be with someone youre not attracted to? Can i make this work? If not how can i deal with it without hurting her???
But we haven't even met!