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    One of my close female friends keeps moaning that men don't take her seriously. She posts images all over social media showing off her body sexually mainly bringing attention to her breasts. I've told her people will view based what you put out, if that's all they see then of course men will only see her as pear of breasts.

    I don't even understand why she does it just take a normal photo of yourself if you have but she never does. She focuses way too much trying to get followers she doesn't know, it's just so very vain and its unbearable.

    It is very ruining our friendship in a way. I just like going out having a laugh, I don't care about getting every girls attention but she purposely try get men to look at her because she dresses quite revealing then moans when they do. She just thinks she intitled to everything and in love with herself to much that I can't have a proper conversation anymore because it's always about how she looks.

    I knew her for along time, she never use to be like this. It's just so boring and cringy to be around. I keep telling her but she sees as a insult when I'm just trying to give her constructive criticism.

    What can I do? How do I stop her being so attention seeking and vain all the time?
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    This is probably quite deep-seated. I doubt it is a problem you (personally) can sort out.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    One of my close female friends keeps moaning that men don't take her seriously. She posts images all over social media showing off her body sexually mainly bringing attention to her breasts. I've told her people will view based what you put out, if that's all they see then of course men will only see her as pear of breasts.

    I don't even understand why she does it just take a normal photo of yourself if you have but she never does. She focuses way too much trying to get followers she doesn't know, it's just so very vain and its unbearable.

    It is very ruining our friendship in a way. I just like going out having a laugh, I don't care about getting every girls attention but she purposely try get men to look at her because she dresses quite revealing then moans when they do. She just thinks she intitled to everything and in love with herself to much that I can't have a proper conversation anymore because it's always about how she looks.

    I knew her for along time, she never use to be like this. It's just so boring and cringy to be around. I keep telling her but she sees as a insult when I'm just trying to give her constructive criticism.

    What can I do? How do I stop her being so attention seeking and vain all the time?
    sounds interesting
    we call these hypocrites
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    classic attention seeker

    fishes for compliments
    claims to be used by people who compliment her
    takes it out on her friends

    I call them parasites
 
 
 
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