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    Well ive spoken to a girl a few times at work, and I think she's decent , however Ive only spoken to her a few times but cant really make a judgement as of yet what she thinks of me, however we do talk, and she looks at me a lot and sometimes smiles. However since we last spoke ive been getting attatched to her as embarrassing
    as it sounds, ive started to listen to songs about love/crushes and I think about her a lot too, like sometimes I just want to kiss or cuddle her.

    But how can I ease myself, I mean I dont want to find myself getting attatched and then it not working out, that would be really hard to take.
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    Rub vasiline all over ur body, or use oil. It's slippy so you'll just slide off of them and won't stick.
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    keep away from the glue. heard it can be a bit sticky.
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    See her purely as an object. She's there for sex and that's all.
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    (Original post by HotFlash)
    See her purely as an object. She's there for sex and that's all.
    Wow, you are so right, like 100% spot on. I wonder how you would feel if someone said that about your daughter or any of your female relatives.
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    (Original post by Eriasu)
    Wow, you are so right, like 100% spot on. I wonder how you would feel if someone said that about your daughter or any of female relatives.
    Oh dear
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    (Original post by HotFlash)
    Oh dear
    Just curiously asking.
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    (Original post by Eriasu)
    Just curiously asking.
    It's a stupid question to ask because I wouldn't know if someone said that about my daughter on TSR...... Unless someone said it to my face I couldn't care less because I wouldn't know.

    I gave OP an answer. Sigh.
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    (Original post by HotFlash)
    It's a stupid question to ask because I wouldn't know if someone said that about my daughter on TSR...... Unless someone said it to my face I couldn't care less because I wouldn't know.

    I gave OP an answer. Sigh.
    Obviously while you're aware of it. Never mind anyways, have a good day.
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    Don't talk to her anymore. Avoid bumping into her. Anyway, why fight that feelings for her?
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    I say go for it little boy. You don't want to end up old and lonely like Zoiberg!
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    imagine walking in on her with ur brother

    problem solved
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    (Original post by ellej93)
    Don't talk to her anymore. Avoid bumping into her. Anyway, why fight that feelings for her?

    ..because you know, this IS a work place and sexual harrassment does exist you know.

    jail times, going on sex offender register and all that jazz Still takes place (although it's an extreme, it's a likely possibility because this is an office romance)

    regards; people still get rejected. that happens.

    this all happens when she doesn't feel the same way he does towards his advances.
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    (Original post by HotFlash)
    See her purely as an object. She's there for sex and that's all.
    ^This.
    .....and then grow into a lonely singleton in your mid forties and be perceived by the outside world as a sad degenerate/freak ...but you wouldn't care because you'd spend your time on misogyny porn blogs on tumblr because theyre the only company you'd ever need...after which you'll be spending the remainder of your life(2 decades or so) forogtten in a care home...but that wont matter because you never had anyone in the first place
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    ^This.
    .....and then grow into a lonely singleton in your mid forties and be perceived by the outside world as a sad degenerate/freak ...but you wouldn't care because you'd spend your time on misogyny porn blogs on tumblr because theyre the only company you'd ever need...after which you'll be spending the remainder of your life(2 decades or so) forogtten in a care home...but that wont matter because you never had anyone in the first place
    We're talking about not getting attached to this one girl. When he wants a relationship it's not exactly hard to find someone.
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    (Original post by HotFlash)
    We're talking about not getting attached to this one girl. When he wants a relationship it's not exactly hard to find someone.


    with all due respect it really doesn't sound like you'd know.
    Anw OP, here's a better idea:mind your own business and leave her alone. That'll take your mind off her.
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    Keep telling yourself she doesn't care, you just work together, outside of that you don't exist to each other.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    with all due respect it really doesn't sound like you'd know.
    Anw OP, here's a better idea:mind your own business and leave her alone. That'll take your mind off her.
    With all due respect I have been in numerous relationships, my longest being 2 years..... I could have continued with them but I choose not too. I find change is good.
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    Ive decided if its meant to be it will be and if its not its not. Nothing to worry about.
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    well if its anything like getting attached to guys then all i can say its futile. might as well listen to sad songs and eat ice cream with an excuse.
 
 
 
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