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    Do you prefer to share most of your thoughts w// friends and family or keep them to your heart? and the main question is WHY?
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    I prefer to share them with friends tbh
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    I share most of my worries with my partner and then my family. I feel like my partner understands me more and has the same kind of views as me so it makes it feel easier to tell him stuff than anyone else. I don't tell friends as much as I tell my partner or family though tbh, I only have one or two close friends, everyone else is more of an acquaintance.
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    I did start sharing them with people a few months back, people I thought to be close friends, because I was struggling with a lot. But things turned pretty *****y with that and I decided not to bother sharing my inner thoughts with anyone for a while.

    Best not to reveal how emotionally messed up I am inside haha
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    I have one very close friend who I have known for years and trust completely so I tell them stuff like that. Everyone else gets the hard face.
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    (Original post by Inexorably)
    I did start sharing them with people a few months back, people I thought to be close friends, because I was struggling with a lot. But things turned pretty *****y with that and I decided not to bother sharing my inner thoughts with anyone for a while.

    Best not to reveal how emotionally messed up I am inside haha
    I wish there was some kind of way where you could talk to a complete stranger who could give you an advice without judging you.---You can share w// me. Don't take it serious unless you want to
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    keep, people don't want to know about my problems, why the f**k would they want to know? unless i'm going to therapy or something(i won't)
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    Hope all of you who have replied would see my view. The reason I have raised that kind of an issue is when you are arguing with a person/ family they are starting to remember most of that "*****y" stuff that you have shared with them.
    --- Would are your opinions?
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    (Original post by shimmeringsofya)
    Do you prefer to share most of your thoughts w// friends and family or keep them to your heart? and the main question is WHY?
    I write down my thoughts and put them in a sack with a snake, a chicken and a dog, and tie the sack. Then I throw the sack into a river and throw the river into space.
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    (Original post by shimmeringsofya)
    I wish there was some kind of way where you could talk to a complete stranger who could give you an advice without judging you.---You can share w// me. Don't take it serious unless you want to
    There are sites for that - certain forums (even TSR) but there's also one called 7 cups of tea or something which is great for that.
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    (Original post by thefatone)
    keep, people don't want to know about my problems, why the f**k would they want to know? unless i'm going to therapy or something(i won't)
    you are quite right, I think
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    (Original post by Inexorably)
    There are sites for that - certain forums (even TSR) but there's also one called 7 cups of tea or something which is great for that.
    That was really helpful, thank you for your reply! I am still open for you
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    i dont really open up tp people but i would never open up to my family about all things but certain things i would tell my stepmum or brother. i have a few close friends where i could tell them anything.
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    (Original post by shimmeringsofya)
    you are quite right, I think
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    (Original post by shimmeringsofya)
    Hope all of you who have replied would see my view. The reason I have raised that kind of an issue is when you are arguing with a person/ family they are starting to remember most of that "*****y" stuff that you have shared with them.
    --- Would are your opinions?
    I have high standards, the moment they use it against me they're gone.
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    (Original post by mkap)
    i dont really open up tp people but i would never open up to my family about all things but certain things i would tell my stepmum or brother. i have a few close friends where i could tell them anything.
    The reason is that some people would understand and forget it but others would keep reminding you about it
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    (Original post by whorace)
    I have high standards, the moment they use it against me they're gone.
    Sure but what about family members?
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    (Original post by shimmeringsofya)
    Sure but what about family members?
    I don't tell them anything, trust runs deeper than blood.
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    I have one close friend that I share everything with. I usually just tell my family stuff on a need to know basis, otherwise it just leads to drama
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    (Original post by whorace)
    I don't tell them anything, trust runs deeper than blood.
    your statement does match your photo
 
 
 
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