His house is really messy, what should I do?

Compromise is what people do when they have difference byt want to reach a settlement. Ofc he can say its his house and he will fart and burp in her face as much as he wants, but then its hardly going to endear him. She then dumps him and finds someone who can be a bit more considerate.

He gets to burp and fart alone. What a winner.

I'd rather have my freedom than a second mother. So yeah, technically he would be a winner seeing as he gets set free to find someone who will be more than happy for him to let rip while they're about. And if they're that much of a keeper, they'll probably join in too.

Farting together: better than farting alone.

I should start a campaign just so I can use that slogan.

So we agree they should talk and if neither fo them wants to compromise they should split and fin a partner of the non farting in front of youand tidy sort or not.

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What if it was someone who you have only known for a few months and just met in person? Would you be OK with farting in front of him/her?

Fair enough you don't mind it but this is something that I don't even do in front of my own family members and none of my exes have done in front of me. I think that it's considerate to go somewhere else to do it.

Not really. In fact, I don't know how you took that from what I said considering the complete lack of a resemblance.

There is no real compromise here. If he wants to fart, and she doesn't want him to fart, the outcome benefits solely one party unless they split up (which for all we know might benefit nobody, and therefore isn't a compromise).

The only compromise would be for OP to choose whether he stops farting in front of her OR he tidies his house...and considering it's his house, I personally don't see why he should do either. But that's just me.

Hi everyone

I met a guy online some months ago when I was getting over heartbreak and became quite attached (well, as attached as I can get to an online personality). I finally decided to visit him and had a really good time. One thing I can't get out of my mind was how messy his house was though . I like to keep my surroundings pristine and value good manners. He burps in front of me and does the occasional fart, which I found disgusting. His personal hygiene is good, otherwise I would have run a mile.

When we were about to go to sleep we cuddled in bed, which was nice. He wanted to have sex but I wasn't sure. I want to see him again but the thought of the messy house gives me anxiety and I don't know whether it's something I can get over. Should I get away from this situation? He seems quite attached to me and I don't want to do anything hurtful.

Hmmm will have to think about that. I only get it out a couple of times a year