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    This is a question for both guys and girls, I would be interested to know from both the male and female perspective.

    How many different people do you go on dates with before finding someone to form a relationship with?

    I have dated around 10 different men (i'm female) and have not found someone to form a relationship with some people I have dated once others a few times, but it has never progressed further. I am worried it never will.

    Sometimes it is clear there is no mutual interest from either side, other times its not reciprocal I have fallen for a guy only for them not to want to see me again other times they want to see me more but I don't feel that spark with them.When will I get that spark and they will too.
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    Never dated anyone. Never wanted a s.o.
    Now I've been in a relationship for 2,5 years.
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    (Original post by vonbroten)
    Never dated anyone. Never wanted a s.o.
    Now I've been in a relationship for 2,5 years.
    how are you in a relationship without dating first? I am confused?
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    (Original post by anonperson12222)
    how are you in a relationship without dating first? I am confused?
    My country doesn't have a dating culture.
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    (Original post by vonbroten)
    My country doesn't have a dating culture.
    what country are you from
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    (Original post by vonbroten)
    My country doesn't have a dating culture.
    sorry i did not consider that, apologies
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    (Original post by hezzlington)
    what country are you from
    A country where cold wind blows. )) Jk. I'm from Norden.
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    (Original post by vonbroten)
    A country where cold wind blows. )) Jk. I'm from Norden.
    England doesn't have a dating culture?
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    (Original post by hezzlington)
    England doesn't have a dating culture?
    England's not part of Norden...
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    (Original post by vonbroten)
    England's not part of Norden...
    Ohh norden as in Nordic countries? I thought you meant Manchester.
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    (Original post by hezzlington)
    Ohh norden as in Nordic countries? I thought you meant Manchester.
    Yep! No, you asked for countries sooo. Haha.
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    (Original post by vonbroten)
    Yep! No, you asked for countries sooo. Haha.
    Yes. I'm being stupid apologies.

    But Norden isn't a country so it confused me.
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    (Original post by hezzlington)
    Yes. I'm being stupid apologies.

    But Norden isn't a country so it confused me.
    Partly my fault. Sorry.
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    This is normal.

    Finding somebody you are compatible with is very hard.

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    now we have solved the riddle of nordic countries could we get back on topic, otherwise I may emigrate to Norway
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    (Original post by anonperson12222)
    now we have solved the riddle of nordic countries could we get back on topic, otherwise I may emigrate to Norway
    Haha.
    Well, I'm having my first relationship ever, but if there's anything you think I can provide answers to, do ask!
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    Well, we cannot merely say when you'll find that spark with someone in a given time.

    You've just got to meet as many people as possible, surely someone would have that spark for you just as much as you have it for them.

    Sometimes, it can be really unexpected than anticipated.
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    Only had one 'spark'
    Lots of lust
    One love (different to spark)
 
 
 
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