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    Talking to him since last June, we're kind of together, he calls me his girlfriend but we still both say it's weird because we've only met twice even though it feels like I know him inside and out. He's literally the perfect boyfriend, kind, caring, funny, cheeky, listens, everything you could ask for and more but I don't know why but when he's not around I still kind of feel like I'm single even though we are more than friends. Even when I masterbate I dont think of him which idk if it's bad.And in September I'm going to university even further away from him and I really don't know what's gonna happen because he can't drive and won't come often, I'm confused but I don't want to deal with thinking about even though I know it's happening soon.

    We planned to have sex last time but he flopped & it was kind of disappointing, I was and am find with it, it wasn't a big deal but I'm just worried if it happens again
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Talking to him since last June, we're kind of together, he calls me his girlfriend but we still both say it's weird because we've only met twice even though it feels like I know him inside and out. He's literally the perfect boyfriend, kind, caring, funny, cheeky, listens, everything you could ask for and more but I don't know why but when he's not around I still kind of feel like I'm single even though we are more than friends. Even when I masterbate I dont think of him which idk if it's bad.And in September I'm going to university even further away from him and I really don't know what's gonna happen because he can't drive and won't come often, I'm confused but I don't want to deal with thinking about even though I know it's happening soon.

    We planned to have sex last time but he flopped & it was kind of disappointing, I was and am find with it, it wasn't a big deal but I'm just worried if it happens again
    I think you should have a serious talk about what you want out of the relationship.
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    The two of you need to talk about what you both want out of this relationship. Face to face if possible but you said you'd only met him twice so I assume it's long distance? If so then Skype, but don't have this conversation over text or over the phone.
 
 
 
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