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    How do you pluck up the courage, first of all? I'm terrified of rejection...

    Then what do you say? Just "Would you like to go for a drink sometime?"

    What if they say no? :\
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    it's terrifying but it has to be done
    but it will also feel good to get a weight off of your chest even if they say no
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    "Hey sexy lady my name's StarsDestination but you can call me Tonight." :awesome:
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    How do you pluck up the courage, first of all? I'm terrified of rejection...

    Then what do you say? Just "Would you like to go for a drink sometime?"

    What if they say no? :\
    You could say that. But whatever you say, say it with confidence.
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    I don't know why I read the title as 'how to ask someone out in prison'
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    think...
    what the person says YES :yes:
    be positive
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Then what do you say? Just "Would you like to go for a drink sometime?"

    What if they say no? :\
    depends - if you don't know her very well, then yeah, "wanna go for a drink sometime" would be a pretty good line
    if you know her a bit more than this, pretty much anything will do - I've used the literal line of "do you wanna go out with me" twice with girls I've known long term, as it gets the job done and saying "wanna go for a drink?" sounds a little ambiguous for that situation

    and if they say no, then who cares? what more are they going to do? say "double no"? "no" is all they will say
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    How do you pluck up the courage, first of all? I'm terrified of rejection...

    Then what do you say? Just "Would you like to go for a drink sometime?"

    What if they say no? :\
    I am afraid it has to be done.
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    You could try something relaxed the first time around: "Want to grab a coffee after school/work/whatever?"
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    "Hey, I was wondering if you'd like to go out sometime."
    If you get a no you can say: "Okay, it was worth a try. No hard feelings."
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    How do you pluck up the courage, first of all? I'm terrified of rejection...

    Then what do you say? Just "Would you like to go for a drink sometime?"

    What if they say no? :\
    It depends how ballsy you are.

    If you're feeling brave just walk up to them when they're alone and ask them if they'll go out with you.

    If not just ask them out on a casual coffee date or something whenever you know they're free
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    If they say no, they say no. It's not the end of the world, it just means that person isnt right for you and they figured it out sooner. If anything they did you a favour, you dont have to waste time and money on them going out.

    Just try not to let the thought of them saying no bother you, i know it's hard but it's just about confidence and knowing that you are a good person and the right person will come along.
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    (Original post by StarsDestination)
    "Hey sexy lady my name's StarsDestination but you can call me Tonight." :awesome:
    You must have women queuing at your door :daydreaming:.
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    (Original post by Legendary Quest)
    I don't know why I read the title as 'how to ask someone out in prison'
    That would be a more interesting thread.
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    (Original post by John55)
    You must have women queuing at your door :daydreaming:.
    One at a time ladies :cool:
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    (Original post by StarsDestination)
    One at a time ladies :cool:

    :love: How romantic :daydreaming:.
 
 
 
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